ok well im almost 7 inches long (im not really worried about that) my question is am i to thick (my girth is 7 inches)I need some advice about my ';member';?
I think it is fineI need some advice about my ';member';?
It's fine. Girth is definitely more important than length. A vagina can actually shrink or get bigger, to accomidate the penis.
7'; girth is pretty thick. a lot of girls would probably be uncomfortable. but they would open up after a while. thicker girls might be the way to go.
what if you are? you can't do anything about it so don't worry about it.
Well, that is a beefy member. anyway thicker is better than longer
Friday, April 30, 2010
Thinking about moving to NYC, need advice.?
I just recently graduated from college. I'm thinking about moving from LA to NYC and pursue a career in advertising. I always wanted to live in the big city but it's scary thinking about leaving behind all my family/friends and having to find a job and place to live. I don't even know how to start planning such a move. How much money I will need? What area to move to? How to go about looking for roommates? Any advice will be greatly appreciated.Thinking about moving to NYC, need advice.?
Hi Anna
I know someone in your same position who found a great apartment, and a roomate, in Astoria (Queens) Its only 2 or 3 subway stops from Manhattan and much cheaper. People are friendly. You'll probably like areas such as Union Squre, the East Village, or similar areas, to hang out. It's never easy movong and, even if you want a sublet, just to look around, try Craigs list, it works. I actually know people who found apart,enmt, roomates, and good jobs using Crag's ;ist
Hope things work out. Any questions, ask.
Fred
Hi Anna
I know someone in your same position who found a great apartment, and a roomate, in Astoria (Queens) Its only 2 or 3 subway stops from Manhattan and much cheaper. People are friendly. You'll probably like areas such as Union Squre, the East Village, or similar areas, to hang out. It's never easy movong and, even if you want a sublet, just to look around, try Craigs list, it works. I actually know people who found apart,enmt, roomates, and good jobs using Crag's ;ist
Hope things work out. Any questions, ask.
Fred
I need advice about my marriage.?
My husband of almost 4 years totally ignores me. He would rather look at scantly clad women (or nude women) then the real thing. I am so depressed about it. He thinks there is nothing wrong with it and that I am over reacting. I feel like crying all the time. What can I do to get his attention back? Please help!I need advice about my marriage.?
maybe he has some ideas of spicing things up but doesnt want to say anything. you should try letting him know that your willing to try new things and you can instigate the first move. good luckI need advice about my marriage.?
watching porn is totally disrespecting you as a woman and as an individual.. by watching porn, he is telling you that you are not good enough, pretty enough, sexy enough and he's rather look at some other sl*t there who is more sexually appealing.. talk to him and tell him you r not ok with this and you feel disrespected and you don't ever want him to look at porn again. This is a marriage and he has to get over porn. Porn destroys families.. and i totally disagree with the woman who asked you to do what the porn stars do. What kind of a cheap comment was that?
If I were you, I would tell him exactly how I feel about his lack of attention. If he didnt respond positively and make an improvement, then I would make sure I was looking pretty damn hot, start going out with friends more often, basically just having a good time. Try it.. Your husband is bound to pay more attention then, out of fear that HE may lose YOU.
Edit: and yes I agree with SS. If you are against porn (as I am), dont lower your standards and allow your husband to participate. Porn is degrading to women, and degrading to the wives whose cheating husbands purve and jack off over another naked woman, and the only ones who defend it are the ones who get off on it or make money from it. I mean, geez, what happened to the marriage vow ';forsaking all others';?
I'm sorry but he is being a jerk. He knows it upsets you when he looks at other women and ignores you and he should stop doing it. If he values your relationship and wants to keep you around then he needs to make a choice. He is emotionally not into you and doesn't care how you feel. That is a very selfish inconsiderate attitude toward his wife, the woman he's supposed to love, honor and cherish.
Do you want to be with him?
Work on yourself.. be happy with yourself.. love who you are and show it.. and it will radiate on to him.. but don't do it because of him.. do it for yourself.. you are getting depressed.. maybe talking to a doctor about the depression..go out get some nice clothes..meet some new friends.. have fun.. and maybe he'll ask to join.. Just don't be too eager.. play hard to get..and find yourself.. one can not truly love someone else unless they love themselves first.
Stop crying and check it out. He doesn't want to get all lovey dovey with someone that's down and depressed. Pick yourself up and put on your sexy high heals and strut over to him and lay a big wet kiss on him and tell him it's your turn. Do what Wifey said too. This is a marriage. Enjoy it.
Yes I agree with some of the answers. Be yourself, build on your self esteem and personal appearance. Take up new interests for yourself - and feel good about yourself no matter what he says and does....
I would try sexy clothes, or even a porno together. Do what they do.lips
maybe he has some ideas of spicing things up but doesnt want to say anything. you should try letting him know that your willing to try new things and you can instigate the first move. good luckI need advice about my marriage.?
watching porn is totally disrespecting you as a woman and as an individual.. by watching porn, he is telling you that you are not good enough, pretty enough, sexy enough and he's rather look at some other sl*t there who is more sexually appealing.. talk to him and tell him you r not ok with this and you feel disrespected and you don't ever want him to look at porn again. This is a marriage and he has to get over porn. Porn destroys families.. and i totally disagree with the woman who asked you to do what the porn stars do. What kind of a cheap comment was that?
If I were you, I would tell him exactly how I feel about his lack of attention. If he didnt respond positively and make an improvement, then I would make sure I was looking pretty damn hot, start going out with friends more often, basically just having a good time. Try it.. Your husband is bound to pay more attention then, out of fear that HE may lose YOU.
Edit: and yes I agree with SS. If you are against porn (as I am), dont lower your standards and allow your husband to participate. Porn is degrading to women, and degrading to the wives whose cheating husbands purve and jack off over another naked woman, and the only ones who defend it are the ones who get off on it or make money from it. I mean, geez, what happened to the marriage vow ';forsaking all others';?
I'm sorry but he is being a jerk. He knows it upsets you when he looks at other women and ignores you and he should stop doing it. If he values your relationship and wants to keep you around then he needs to make a choice. He is emotionally not into you and doesn't care how you feel. That is a very selfish inconsiderate attitude toward his wife, the woman he's supposed to love, honor and cherish.
Do you want to be with him?
Work on yourself.. be happy with yourself.. love who you are and show it.. and it will radiate on to him.. but don't do it because of him.. do it for yourself.. you are getting depressed.. maybe talking to a doctor about the depression..go out get some nice clothes..meet some new friends.. have fun.. and maybe he'll ask to join.. Just don't be too eager.. play hard to get..and find yourself.. one can not truly love someone else unless they love themselves first.
Stop crying and check it out. He doesn't want to get all lovey dovey with someone that's down and depressed. Pick yourself up and put on your sexy high heals and strut over to him and lay a big wet kiss on him and tell him it's your turn. Do what Wifey said too. This is a marriage. Enjoy it.
Yes I agree with some of the answers. Be yourself, build on your self esteem and personal appearance. Take up new interests for yourself - and feel good about yourself no matter what he says and does....
I would try sexy clothes, or even a porno together. Do what they do.
I need advice about condom types...?
my girlfriend and I are finally going 2 lose our virginity to each other and she told me to go buy some condoms. I bought some trojan warm sensations and then traded one with a friend for a lifestyles ultra lubricated. Which one should I use? Should I get a different kind all together? Or does it even matter at all??I need advice about condom types...?
Durex ultimate sensation is my favorite. Feels almost as good as no condom. Trojans are my least favorite, too tight, and you can't feel anything. Lifestyles are okay.
Durex ultimate sensation is my favorite. Feels almost as good as no condom. Trojans are my least favorite, too tight, and you can't feel anything. Lifestyles are okay.
Question and Advice about Domestic Violence in the UK, had enough of my babies father, when we have a?
disagreement or row he always uses his fist etc there had been various incidences in the past, on Wednesday he was jealous, broke my garden gate, stormed in shouting at me, whacked and thumped me across the face a few times, threatened with his fist haninng over to smash me right in the centre of my face.
Then to top it off before I was finally able to escape with my baby, he spat in my face.
I have called the police, they still havent arressted him as he keeps calling me.
I am taking this to court, but what can I expect, will they make out that I encourage him then guilty, will he get off, what are the typical expectations in a British Court of Law in concern of my case?
Thank You.Question and Advice about Domestic Violence in the UK, had enough of my babies father, when we have a?
I don't live in the UK but here in the US you have to show up at the hospital with obvious injuries to get noticed. It is still a man's world, honey. Make a police report in front of hospital witnesses and they should arrest him. How long they will keep him is another matter altogether. Take it to court and by all means do not return to your baby's father, EVER!. What he has done he will do again and your baby will grow up to learn violence too if s/he is around it. Here he would be expected to pay you child support and because of your having reported the abuse, he would not get to share custody of the child but would be required to have only supervised visitation (which men like that usually don't bother with) Good luck.
Then to top it off before I was finally able to escape with my baby, he spat in my face.
I have called the police, they still havent arressted him as he keeps calling me.
I am taking this to court, but what can I expect, will they make out that I encourage him then guilty, will he get off, what are the typical expectations in a British Court of Law in concern of my case?
Thank You.Question and Advice about Domestic Violence in the UK, had enough of my babies father, when we have a?
I don't live in the UK but here in the US you have to show up at the hospital with obvious injuries to get noticed. It is still a man's world, honey. Make a police report in front of hospital witnesses and they should arrest him. How long they will keep him is another matter altogether. Take it to court and by all means do not return to your baby's father, EVER!. What he has done he will do again and your baby will grow up to learn violence too if s/he is around it. Here he would be expected to pay you child support and because of your having reported the abuse, he would not get to share custody of the child but would be required to have only supervised visitation (which men like that usually don't bother with) Good luck.
Advice about sex?
I have been married about a year, I really love my husband, but I'm not satisfied our physical intimacy. I was a virgin before I met my husband, so I didn't have any sexual relationship with any other person except my husband. My husband has lots of experiences. We make love usually once or twice month, because he has some health issue. I know he really loves me, we're always together, discuss a lot, kiss a lot, and cuddle a lot. We spend time together really a lot. Even we meet for lunch everyday. I sometimes ask him if he has any sexual fantacy or not, or what he likes....but always he says ';I like just normal sex, I don't have any fantacy, or fetish, or whatever...I like what we do'; Whenever we make love, I'm not really turned on, and I never had orgasm with my husband. Sometimes I feel it's close, but it never happened. I think I need something, but I don't know what I want to. Also I want to make it differently, but I don't know what to do, and also don't know what I like...Advice about sex?
well it is nice that you waited either personal or religous whayever the reason.
It took me a long time to figure out what I liked. Since you are married you could possibly buy a book. I don't know what country you are in and in some books about sex are banned. Try amazon.com there are books there here is a link to the section
http://www.amazon.com/Sex-Health-Mind-Bo鈥?/a>
the womans section:
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=sr_nr_n_6/10鈥?/a>
I also suggest setting up some alone time for yourself and get to know your own body. You have to find the right place first to know where it feels good and how to get there.
If you do get a book you and your husband could read it together ( after you read it first of course) and pick out what you are both willing to do.Advice about sex?
you need to be straight up honest with him and tell him you're not satisfied...but in a nonthreatening way. Then suggest to do a different position ( girl on top usually works :) ) haha. good luck...talk to him!!!
how do you know that you want more when he's your only? If he has problems let him know and go to the DR. I been with my wife for 9 years and we have sex 4 times a week at the least . and if he;s weak in the hips tell him to use his lips
tell your husband what your feeling and see if he can try some thing different or do it your self ha ha hope all goes well darling
So first know what you want and then decide how to go about it because you have many things to be addressed to.
while ur husband may have a health issue, it is important that u understand what it is and exactly how it affects his sex life. if u don't have all the facts get to see a doctor together and ask all the questions u need to.
if ur husband is as experienced as u say am sure he can see how dissatisfied u are and loves u enough to try harder. tell him u need more stimulation, more foreplay. change positions sometimes. give as good as you get and you will become better and better. most of all u need to be comfortable with yourself as a sexual being. there are lots of books, websites, therapists that can also help u. http://www.medicinenet.com has an interview on how couples can communicate their needs thats very informative
Just Do It!
I think with you coming close that is a good sign firs of all. Have either of you thought about toys to get things going and to a little spice and excitement. Nothing is wrong with normal but use toys beforehand to please you first and finish the old fashioned way. Pick the toys out together so he feels involved but the clitoral toys are the best. Good Luck!
Sex need two hands to clap, if one does not respond, then it is a total failure, I guess you have tried alot, so it up to your husband to do something, tell him that you do not get the orgasm that is the most important in sexual intermacy. If he really do love you, he must fulfil it as a husband.
When I have sex, i will bring orgasm to a girl, seeing them orgasm, it satisfied my desire and make me orgasm too. Of course she also can make me orgasm at a later stage.
Seek medical advices if needed, wouldn't mind to spend some for a lifetime sex enjoyment with hubby. Everybody sex adventure is different and unique in it sense, it can be good to other, but no feeling for you. So, get advices from the professional and perhap create your own sex behavior with your hubby and enjoy to the fullness.
No good sex, no good fun ya.
I suggest you tell your husband that you love him very much but you were thinking of wanting to try new things. You could play on his experiences. What i mean is say you have so much experience with different things I don't. There is body else I would want more than for you and I to have different positions or whatever it is your looking for.
You can plan out the night a little different. Such as wear something sexy and add food into sex. Have ice cubes, wipe cream anything that sounds good. And take over the situation. Don't be scared to try something new. You dont have to rush into anything crazy. Go at your own pace but being your husband sounds like such a great man I really feel he would be open to making sure your happy in that department.
your husband sounds like a great husband, but what you need is to work with him a lil on the before sex acts , i mean in order for you to get orgasm , you need to be aroused, so when you start intercourse what was close to happen will happen,also since your husband has experiences, you can make you sexlife interestion through playing on this field i mean ask him what is the most thing he loved during his experiences, how other women used to do this or that with him ,etc.... but if you have a fantasy you should make him love it, and u 2 would enjoy, as a matter of fact there is alot of things to be done to solve your problem , but needs books, i wish u happiness, and good luck
well it is nice that you waited either personal or religous whayever the reason.
It took me a long time to figure out what I liked. Since you are married you could possibly buy a book. I don't know what country you are in and in some books about sex are banned. Try amazon.com there are books there here is a link to the section
http://www.amazon.com/Sex-Health-Mind-Bo鈥?/a>
the womans section:
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=sr_nr_n_6/10鈥?/a>
I also suggest setting up some alone time for yourself and get to know your own body. You have to find the right place first to know where it feels good and how to get there.
If you do get a book you and your husband could read it together ( after you read it first of course) and pick out what you are both willing to do.Advice about sex?
you need to be straight up honest with him and tell him you're not satisfied...but in a nonthreatening way. Then suggest to do a different position ( girl on top usually works :) ) haha. good luck...talk to him!!!
how do you know that you want more when he's your only? If he has problems let him know and go to the DR. I been with my wife for 9 years and we have sex 4 times a week at the least . and if he;s weak in the hips tell him to use his lips
tell your husband what your feeling and see if he can try some thing different or do it your self ha ha hope all goes well darling
So first know what you want and then decide how to go about it because you have many things to be addressed to.
while ur husband may have a health issue, it is important that u understand what it is and exactly how it affects his sex life. if u don't have all the facts get to see a doctor together and ask all the questions u need to.
if ur husband is as experienced as u say am sure he can see how dissatisfied u are and loves u enough to try harder. tell him u need more stimulation, more foreplay. change positions sometimes. give as good as you get and you will become better and better. most of all u need to be comfortable with yourself as a sexual being. there are lots of books, websites, therapists that can also help u. http://www.medicinenet.com has an interview on how couples can communicate their needs thats very informative
Just Do It!
I think with you coming close that is a good sign firs of all. Have either of you thought about toys to get things going and to a little spice and excitement. Nothing is wrong with normal but use toys beforehand to please you first and finish the old fashioned way. Pick the toys out together so he feels involved but the clitoral toys are the best. Good Luck!
Sex need two hands to clap, if one does not respond, then it is a total failure, I guess you have tried alot, so it up to your husband to do something, tell him that you do not get the orgasm that is the most important in sexual intermacy. If he really do love you, he must fulfil it as a husband.
When I have sex, i will bring orgasm to a girl, seeing them orgasm, it satisfied my desire and make me orgasm too. Of course she also can make me orgasm at a later stage.
Seek medical advices if needed, wouldn't mind to spend some for a lifetime sex enjoyment with hubby. Everybody sex adventure is different and unique in it sense, it can be good to other, but no feeling for you. So, get advices from the professional and perhap create your own sex behavior with your hubby and enjoy to the fullness.
No good sex, no good fun ya.
I suggest you tell your husband that you love him very much but you were thinking of wanting to try new things. You could play on his experiences. What i mean is say you have so much experience with different things I don't. There is body else I would want more than for you and I to have different positions or whatever it is your looking for.
You can plan out the night a little different. Such as wear something sexy and add food into sex. Have ice cubes, wipe cream anything that sounds good. And take over the situation. Don't be scared to try something new. You dont have to rush into anything crazy. Go at your own pace but being your husband sounds like such a great man I really feel he would be open to making sure your happy in that department.
your husband sounds like a great husband, but what you need is to work with him a lil on the before sex acts , i mean in order for you to get orgasm , you need to be aroused, so when you start intercourse what was close to happen will happen,also since your husband has experiences, you can make you sexlife interestion through playing on this field i mean ask him what is the most thing he loved during his experiences, how other women used to do this or that with him ,etc.... but if you have a fantasy you should make him love it, and u 2 would enjoy, as a matter of fact there is alot of things to be done to solve your problem , but needs books, i wish u happiness, and good luck
Advice about....?
this poem. do you think it's good...if not how can i make it better.
my secret sorry letter by me.
The pain cuts to deep
making it impossible to sleep
instead i lay awake
as my heart slowly brake
you say you don't love me
how could that be
you say i hate you
however, that is not true
you, i have always loved
even when i was mad
you say i don't know what love is
if that were true, i would have given up on this
how could you miss all the clues
to let you know i love you
i know I'm not your perfect kid
i always hope you'd forgive the things i did
i could've been worse, i could've been better
I'm so tired of writing you sorry letters
i never want you to read this one
even after this is all done
this comes from the heart
no matter what, i feel, we'll always be apart
I'm sorry mom i couldn't hold it all together
even with this secret sorry letter
so what do you think.
and no rude answers. it takes alot for a person to post the way they feel.Advice about....?
wow... thats deep... it's to you're mother huh... hope she understands how you feelAdvice about....?
It's good
i really love your poem. i would never be able to write as good as that. =]]
OMG i love that!!! that is one of the most sadest poems i've ever heard. i think the detail and the words in it are so put together. It shows a lot of passion to write something like that.
Ok, in truth it's not the BEST POEM IN THE WHOLE ENTIRE WORLD [!], but it's YOUR poem and I can see your hurt feelings and I can sense your pain. If you are having troubles with your mom, why not try talking to her about how you feel?
Always helps.
my secret sorry letter by me.
The pain cuts to deep
making it impossible to sleep
instead i lay awake
as my heart slowly brake
you say you don't love me
how could that be
you say i hate you
however, that is not true
you, i have always loved
even when i was mad
you say i don't know what love is
if that were true, i would have given up on this
how could you miss all the clues
to let you know i love you
i know I'm not your perfect kid
i always hope you'd forgive the things i did
i could've been worse, i could've been better
I'm so tired of writing you sorry letters
i never want you to read this one
even after this is all done
this comes from the heart
no matter what, i feel, we'll always be apart
I'm sorry mom i couldn't hold it all together
even with this secret sorry letter
so what do you think.
and no rude answers. it takes alot for a person to post the way they feel.Advice about....?
wow... thats deep... it's to you're mother huh... hope she understands how you feelAdvice about....?
It's good
i really love your poem. i would never be able to write as good as that. =]]
OMG i love that!!! that is one of the most sadest poems i've ever heard. i think the detail and the words in it are so put together. It shows a lot of passion to write something like that.
Ok, in truth it's not the BEST POEM IN THE WHOLE ENTIRE WORLD [!], but it's YOUR poem and I can see your hurt feelings and I can sense your pain. If you are having troubles with your mom, why not try talking to her about how you feel?
Always helps.
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