Friday, January 8, 2010

Advice about a guy??

Ok I really like this guy but we haven't talked in a while at least since homecoming which was in october I had a huge crush on him last year but we lost contact during the summer and now I barely see him but when I do he always smiles and askes me how I'm doing how can I get him to like me or at least get a better realationship with?? You know try and keep in touch better. Thanks :)Advice about a guy??
just keep on tlkin to him, get to know each otherAdvice about a guy??
Hi,





This is really a tough one because you are thinking that there is more here between you than there really is because you had a crush on him.





You have to give a guy more credit than you are giving him. If he doesn't call you all summer.....if he allows himself to lose contact with you...you barely see him....he isn't that into you.





When a good guy likes someone, he pursues her. He calls her, asks her out...things like that.





If he doesn't do those things, he just isn't interested enough to pursue you.





Some guys, well...many these days want women to pursue them. I think that is awful. They are acting like females and they want you to act like the aggressive male. It is totally confusing. It can only work out for so long.





Men....good men...secretly want to pursue the woman they admire until they catch them. They want you to be a hard catch. While you are not accepting every invite, playing a little hard to get, smile at them, make good eye contact with them, touch their hand for a second when you are with them, then let them chase you.





The new way of women pursuing men has not worked these last 20 years. The old fashioned method of men pursuing women has worked very well for thousands of years. Go with what works.





Smile at the guys you want to say hello to you. Make eye contact with them. It works better that way in the long run.
Try and start getting in touch better. Ask if he wants to hang out or if he wants to something together.
getting use to one another again

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