I need advice about my relationship?

Ive been dating the same girl for the last 5 and half years and now am feeling that we might be in a bit of a rut. i love her, but i find myself starting to wonder if i might be missing things in the relationship that i need.


Lately she has made a big deal about going out with guy friends(which she really doesnt have) without me saying that it wouldnt be the same hanging out with them with me there.


i dont go out very often, she is not 21 yet and im 23 so i dont go to bars out of respect that she cant yet. every now and then i go over to brothers house to hang out, of course inviting her, yet she feels that because i go over there she is missing out on hanging with her friends, which i dont limit in any way.


A little help would be appreciated.lI need advice about my relationship?
Tell her how you are feeling. Not one person can be everything to another person. You must have friends and family in your life and if she is to shallow or doesnt trust you enough to enjoy your friends and family then it is time for you to move on. Life is to short to not be able to do what you want when you want, as long as you are not hurting the other person. Good luck.I need advice about my relationship?
OK, you say that you have been dating the same girl for over 5 years and you feel that you are in a rut. You say that you love her but, maybe there is more for you out there.





She has told you that she wants to have male friends to go out with minus you. What kind of relationship is this?





You are thoughtful of her not to go to bars without her, to invite her to your brother's house and she is missing out on hanging out with friends.





It seems to me that she is not being thoughtful of you and she is actually disrespecting you to want to go out with male friends without you. What is that about?????





You are correct, there are so many possibilities of a better relationship than this. Move on. You are missing out and much too young to tie yourself down with this girl.





Additional details: Never live with someone until you are ready to make a marriage covenant commitment.
wow. this is a similar situation to me and my guy. he's 23 and i'm not 21 yet, and evfery now and then he goes out with his buddies. it's only fair! i totally let him. she should allow you to be who you are---that's why she loves you, right? the best tool is communication.


good luck~
Send her out with her friends forever. She can't be serious.