My mother is 75 and since I remember she used to provoke jeoulsy between her children to force them to do things that she wanted....For example if my brother wouldn't study she would tell him how my sister was good at school.and if my sister was not obeying what she wanted she would tell her how wise and mature my brother was and if I was naughty she would tell how my brother and sister were and would never do such a things I were doing.....well the result is that none of the children have good relationship with each other and of course with her now....although she was a wonderful mother and was very caring and had sacrifised everything in her life for the sake of her children....even now when she wants something from me she does the same thing she first admires my brother or my sister in front of me because of what she desires and then she asks me what she wants me to do.she is old and fragile now ...so what can I do when I get angry with this?I need your advice about my mother's problem.....?
Do we know each other ?You are describing my mom to boot.They are manipulators.Do only what you can for herI need your advice about my mother's problem.....?
My grandmother is that way. I thought about it one day and I came to this conclusion: She probably ain't gonna change and I'll just have to accept it. As hard as that sounds, ya know, she's in her golden years and I wouldn't want her to leave me on bad terms. Don't let this put a cleft between you all. Try to focus more on the good times with each other.
Forgive %26amp; forget it it's in the past.Deal with it %26amp; move on.
“And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment. Whether one or both of them reach old age [while] with you, say not to them [so much as], ';uff,'; and do not repel them but speak to them a noble word.” [Quran 17: 23]
“And We have enjoined upon man [care] for his parents. His mother carried him, [increasing her] in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years. Be grateful to Me and to your parents; to Me is the [final] destination.” [Quran 31:14]
“…No mother should be harmed through her child, and no father through his child…” [Quran 2: 233]
';…My Lord and Sustainer! Be kind and have mercy on them as they cherished, nurtured and sustained me in childhood.” [Quran 17: 24]
Once a companion asked the Prophet as to whom he should show more kindness. The Prophet replied: ';Your mother.'; He asked who comes next and the Prophet again replied: ';Your mother.'; He asked the Prophet yet again who comes next. The Prophet replied: “Your mother.'; When the companion asked for the fourth time, only then did the Prophet reply: ';Your father.';
Start comparing her to other mothers who would never do such a thing.
Since you already knew your mother from the very first start I suggest you just keep it astride and don't get jealous and pityful, remember your mom is already in his twilight years any moment or time now she will be called by our maker. So there will be no more mom to talk too or see.
Just imagine the good things you two do when you are still a child, regardless of what she does to any of your sister or brother, she is just a good story teller to make each and every one of you to move on and strive hard in this life. In other words she challenge you all to think for yourself because in the end she will be gone and will be just brothers and sisters, that is what's life is all about. Think positive not just dwell on the past, we can never returned to the past but definitely look up for the future. Will you still dwell in the past?
She learnt how to manipulate you all and it worked! You should do only what you can since you already know that this is her method of getting things done. There is no point in being jealous or trying to outdo your siblings, you're all adults with your own lives so it's petty to let it carry on. If you get angry with her about it, instead of blowing up or sulking, just laugh and say in a jocular way that you learnt long ago that she tries to 'trick' you into doing things and then say what you are able to do and will do depending on her request. She may not do it next time...
what can you do? except dont repeat the cycle with your own children ..we learn from our experiences and i bet your kids will have a great relationship with eachother but they will resent you for other reasons ,no one is a perfect parent and there are no model children ..thank your mom for doing her best and hope that you can do yours...and think of all the great things she told your siblings about you......learn to forgive
Thursday, December 31, 2009
I need some advice about my Doctor.....?
At my last appt. he didn't check me or anything and told me he'd see me in a week. Then I went to schedule and they did it for 3 weeks! I am 38 weeks pregnant now! I will not see him until the week after my due date. He doesn't even have another Dr taking his patients. They said if I have a problem go to the hospital. I am so angry. I have had complications with my hips/back and pelvis area and he just keeps giving me pain meds. I am in SO much pain, nothing is working and he didn't even care! I was induced with my 1st one and I would like to be induced with this one because I have been measuring big this entire time and he said I am just going to have a big baby, but then he never gave me a ultrasound. What do I do? I would just go into the hospital but everytime I do that they say they need to speak with my DR. I don't understand they leave me in a situation I have no control over. What do I do at this point? I was having pains yesterday but didn't even have a Dr to call... so II need some advice about my Doctor.....?
sounds like you should make a complaint against this doctor. What he is doing is not right. You should be getting an u/s if they say it's going to be a big baby b/c you might need a c-section.I need some advice about my Doctor.....?
Where is your doctor, on vaction or something. They have to have an oncall doctor. If you have problems call the office, they will get you to someone.
well first off I think you should NOT be on any pain meds
this is not natural.
Second you DO just need to tough it out.
If the doctor isn't there then the doctor in the hospital delivers the baby.
Honestly your the only one who actually NEEDS to be there to push the baby out
As far as measurements, they mean nothing
I was told my baby would be 10 pounds or more but he was only 7lbs
my sister inlaw was told the same thing and her baby was only 5 lbs
As far as induction? Why would you want to force your baby out early, wait and when your doctor comes back you will be full term and then the induction will be fine.
And from your message it seems you have been running to the hospital quite a bit, so your familiar now that they agree with your doctor.
My suggestion is this, think about your baby first
then think about YOU.
Having babies hurts, being pregnant hurts, being a mother hurts, I have 3 of them its painful
But I suck it up , I tough it out for my baby's health
I fractured my tailbone and pelvis and took NO pain meds
and delivered naturally.
I am not saying your faking your pain, but i am saying that everything you put into your body goes into the baby
after he/she is delivered she could go thru withdrawl symptoms, unless your breastfeeding , in which case you will continue to give her the pain meds via breast milk
Something to think about.
Good luck
Meg
Call other Dr's office and ask their advice. Some are wary of taking on a patient so far along but it's extenuating circumstances. If that doesnt work, go to the ER, tell them you dont have a doctor, you've never seen a doctor during your pregnancy and you need help.
Oh My goodness! I feel so bad for you! I would be so furious! I don't know what I would do, that is so unprofessional and they should see you every week in the last part of your pregnancy! What was the reason they gave? I know I would not be comfortable with him delivering my child, thats for sure! I would call another doctor and tell them your situation, maybe someone will be compassionate enough to help you out. You need an ultrasound to check the baby's weight, to check and see if he's head down, and they need to check if you are dilated! Is there another hospital in your area? Good luck and I am so sorry you are in this situation.
Find a different doc. Call a new doc's office and explain your situation, I am sure you will find one who will see you immediately. I can't believe he hasn't given you an ultrasound at all. What kind of doc is he?
I would be VERY angry too! I am sorry that this has happened to you. If the pain gets to bad go to the ER they can not refuse to see you especially once you tell them your doctor is unreachable. I thought that doctors had to have an on-call doctor for situations like this.
that is crazy. at this point your dr should most certainly be on top of your care. why did they schedule you for 3 weeks out??? i would demand an earlier appt. no longer than a week. and demand answers about the size of your baby, the ultrasound, etc. and what the best route for you at this point would be (whether it be induction, a section or what). i dont understand some of these drs i hear about on here. i am so sorry you are having so much trouble with yours.
I was shocked to read about your situation!I would call my insurance company tell them everything and they should refer you to another OB.No ultra sounds???Isn't he afraid of a lawsuit?
If there is any other ob/gyn in town or a different hospital, call them and explain your problem. You need to be seen by a competent professional and it you are being treated this way, so may other women using your current doctor. If there's not another doctor, check and see if there's a midwife. Anything would be better than this kind of treatment.
Good luck!
I would definitely call your doctors nurse. I think it's absolutely CRAZY that he would leave with no other doctor on call to see you! I would let her know that you are not ok with the fact that you are in so much pain and there is no doctor to see and ask for a referral for TODAY! If she tells you to go the the ER I would refuse and tell her that you are not hanging up the phone until you have a referral.
Very Best Wishes!
#1 an ultrasound is no more accurate then a clinical assessment (from palpating the baby) to determine fetal weight in the latter half of pregnancy.
#2 Most moms measure 2cm bigger their second pregnancy, its not a big deal and it doesn't mean you are having a big baby.
#3 A doctor or OB has no training in assisting you with your back/hip/pelvic pain. He should have referred you to a physical or occupational therapist. As he didn't you can still get relief from seeing a chiropractor. For a list of a few trained in prenatal care: http://www.icpa4kids.org
#4 Just guessing but by ';check you'; you mean he didn't check for dilation and effacement of the cervix. Dilation and effacement are extremely poor predictors of labour. And even if they weren't what difference would it make? Whether he said you had 2 days left or 2 weeks left wouldn't change the fact that your baby will come when your baby is ready.
I am sorry but the fact of the matter is nobody has much control over pregnancy. We can pretend, we can run all sorts of prenatal tests to make us feel like we do but we don't. We can also treat pregnancy like a disease and over-manage it and put both mom and baby at risk. Inductions are risky in and of themselves, but they also tend to lead to even more interventions that are worse.
If you are really concerned go to the hospital and demand treatment, but you can't force any doctor to do something they consider unethical and many would consider an unneeded induction to be unethical. They can check your baby's heart rate and give you a second opinion on fetal size (which can be off by as much as 2lbs both through ultrasounds and clinical examination). If you are very lucky they might get a physiotherapist down to show you some exercises, but that's about it.
I would make an appointment with another doctor. Tell him the situation and your concerns. If anything, you could get checked out. Maybe a second opinion. Remember, you hired your doctor to see to your care. You can also fire him. If you are not comfortable with him, then find someone else.
If you are having pains or need to be checked out, don't be afraid to go to the hospital if you feel the need to. Better to be cautious than to ignore these things.
If you go to the hospital and feel that you are not getting the treatment you need, ask to speak to the patient advocate. Their job is to hear your concerns and try to resolve the issue.
If your doctor has seen you your entire pregnancy then I am sure that he/she has a good reason for this. If everything is healthy there is really no reason to see you this close to the end, seeing you after your due date makes sense to see where's the baby and see if he/she can get things moving. If you really want to see the doctor sooner, start having sex that helped get things moving for both of our pregnancies. Congrats you will meet your baby soon!
It sounds like you are fixing to go into labor to me. I would say to go to a different doctor and completely explain the situation and tell them that you have not had an ultasound. What kind of insurance do you have (medicaid, tricare, etc.) first of all? Normally you will have to call the insurance company and ask to swtich doctors, and if they ask you why so far into your pregnancy then explain to them what has been going on and don't leave anything out. Hope this helps.new eyeshadow
sounds like you should make a complaint against this doctor. What he is doing is not right. You should be getting an u/s if they say it's going to be a big baby b/c you might need a c-section.I need some advice about my Doctor.....?
Where is your doctor, on vaction or something. They have to have an oncall doctor. If you have problems call the office, they will get you to someone.
well first off I think you should NOT be on any pain meds
this is not natural.
Second you DO just need to tough it out.
If the doctor isn't there then the doctor in the hospital delivers the baby.
Honestly your the only one who actually NEEDS to be there to push the baby out
As far as measurements, they mean nothing
I was told my baby would be 10 pounds or more but he was only 7lbs
my sister inlaw was told the same thing and her baby was only 5 lbs
As far as induction? Why would you want to force your baby out early, wait and when your doctor comes back you will be full term and then the induction will be fine.
And from your message it seems you have been running to the hospital quite a bit, so your familiar now that they agree with your doctor.
My suggestion is this, think about your baby first
then think about YOU.
Having babies hurts, being pregnant hurts, being a mother hurts, I have 3 of them its painful
But I suck it up , I tough it out for my baby's health
I fractured my tailbone and pelvis and took NO pain meds
and delivered naturally.
I am not saying your faking your pain, but i am saying that everything you put into your body goes into the baby
after he/she is delivered she could go thru withdrawl symptoms, unless your breastfeeding , in which case you will continue to give her the pain meds via breast milk
Something to think about.
Good luck
Meg
Call other Dr's office and ask their advice. Some are wary of taking on a patient so far along but it's extenuating circumstances. If that doesnt work, go to the ER, tell them you dont have a doctor, you've never seen a doctor during your pregnancy and you need help.
Oh My goodness! I feel so bad for you! I would be so furious! I don't know what I would do, that is so unprofessional and they should see you every week in the last part of your pregnancy! What was the reason they gave? I know I would not be comfortable with him delivering my child, thats for sure! I would call another doctor and tell them your situation, maybe someone will be compassionate enough to help you out. You need an ultrasound to check the baby's weight, to check and see if he's head down, and they need to check if you are dilated! Is there another hospital in your area? Good luck and I am so sorry you are in this situation.
Find a different doc. Call a new doc's office and explain your situation, I am sure you will find one who will see you immediately. I can't believe he hasn't given you an ultrasound at all. What kind of doc is he?
I would be VERY angry too! I am sorry that this has happened to you. If the pain gets to bad go to the ER they can not refuse to see you especially once you tell them your doctor is unreachable. I thought that doctors had to have an on-call doctor for situations like this.
that is crazy. at this point your dr should most certainly be on top of your care. why did they schedule you for 3 weeks out??? i would demand an earlier appt. no longer than a week. and demand answers about the size of your baby, the ultrasound, etc. and what the best route for you at this point would be (whether it be induction, a section or what). i dont understand some of these drs i hear about on here. i am so sorry you are having so much trouble with yours.
I was shocked to read about your situation!I would call my insurance company tell them everything and they should refer you to another OB.No ultra sounds???Isn't he afraid of a lawsuit?
If there is any other ob/gyn in town or a different hospital, call them and explain your problem. You need to be seen by a competent professional and it you are being treated this way, so may other women using your current doctor. If there's not another doctor, check and see if there's a midwife. Anything would be better than this kind of treatment.
Good luck!
I would definitely call your doctors nurse. I think it's absolutely CRAZY that he would leave with no other doctor on call to see you! I would let her know that you are not ok with the fact that you are in so much pain and there is no doctor to see and ask for a referral for TODAY! If she tells you to go the the ER I would refuse and tell her that you are not hanging up the phone until you have a referral.
Very Best Wishes!
#1 an ultrasound is no more accurate then a clinical assessment (from palpating the baby) to determine fetal weight in the latter half of pregnancy.
#2 Most moms measure 2cm bigger their second pregnancy, its not a big deal and it doesn't mean you are having a big baby.
#3 A doctor or OB has no training in assisting you with your back/hip/pelvic pain. He should have referred you to a physical or occupational therapist. As he didn't you can still get relief from seeing a chiropractor. For a list of a few trained in prenatal care: http://www.icpa4kids.org
#4 Just guessing but by ';check you'; you mean he didn't check for dilation and effacement of the cervix. Dilation and effacement are extremely poor predictors of labour. And even if they weren't what difference would it make? Whether he said you had 2 days left or 2 weeks left wouldn't change the fact that your baby will come when your baby is ready.
I am sorry but the fact of the matter is nobody has much control over pregnancy. We can pretend, we can run all sorts of prenatal tests to make us feel like we do but we don't. We can also treat pregnancy like a disease and over-manage it and put both mom and baby at risk. Inductions are risky in and of themselves, but they also tend to lead to even more interventions that are worse.
If you are really concerned go to the hospital and demand treatment, but you can't force any doctor to do something they consider unethical and many would consider an unneeded induction to be unethical. They can check your baby's heart rate and give you a second opinion on fetal size (which can be off by as much as 2lbs both through ultrasounds and clinical examination). If you are very lucky they might get a physiotherapist down to show you some exercises, but that's about it.
I would make an appointment with another doctor. Tell him the situation and your concerns. If anything, you could get checked out. Maybe a second opinion. Remember, you hired your doctor to see to your care. You can also fire him. If you are not comfortable with him, then find someone else.
If you are having pains or need to be checked out, don't be afraid to go to the hospital if you feel the need to. Better to be cautious than to ignore these things.
If you go to the hospital and feel that you are not getting the treatment you need, ask to speak to the patient advocate. Their job is to hear your concerns and try to resolve the issue.
If your doctor has seen you your entire pregnancy then I am sure that he/she has a good reason for this. If everything is healthy there is really no reason to see you this close to the end, seeing you after your due date makes sense to see where's the baby and see if he/she can get things moving. If you really want to see the doctor sooner, start having sex that helped get things moving for both of our pregnancies. Congrats you will meet your baby soon!
It sounds like you are fixing to go into labor to me. I would say to go to a different doctor and completely explain the situation and tell them that you have not had an ultasound. What kind of insurance do you have (medicaid, tricare, etc.) first of all? Normally you will have to call the insurance company and ask to swtich doctors, and if they ask you why so far into your pregnancy then explain to them what has been going on and don't leave anything out. Hope this helps.
I Need Some Advice About This Boy Please!!!?
I like my friends brother. during the school year i got to know my friends older borther cuz he was in a lot?
of my classes. he was nice, funny and always helped me with homework. his sister-my friend-is a year younger than us.shes a really good friend cuz we both play a sport so we're together a lot. 1 day i told her i liked her brother she said hes weird and has never had a girlfriend and is like anti-girlfriend or something, she didnt really know how to explain him. i think hes just shy or doesnt know how to ask a girl out or something like that. anyways now thats its summer he has been away at camp and i havent seen/talked to him. really want him as my boyfriend, but i think that would be so awkword around my friend, (i think she thinks i dont like him anymore cuz she talks about him alot and doesnt ask if i like him anymore). a few days ago i told some1 i liked him and they're like ohh!! hes so cute, hes the nicest person ever you gotta do it!! everyone says that but idk what toI Need Some Advice About This Boy Please!!!?
Remember your friend first because she was there first. But if you really like him and don't make it uncomfortable for your friend then go for it. Just be honest with your friend, him, and yourself. Take it slow aswell never rush into things.I Need Some Advice About This Boy Please!!!?
I did not get u wat do wanna say???
Well me i'm not an expert in this type of situation my situation is so different but why would your friend hate you for something like that i mean if one of my younger friends liked my brother i wouldn't mind hey as long as my brother is happy it's cool with me and as long as my friend treats hiim right the only reason your friend would hate is if she allready had someone in mind to setup her brother with or she really doesn't likes you as a friend and pretends to be your friend or maybe she would get jealous that you would spent more time with her brother if you were his girlfriend then spending time quality with your younger friend.
If you dont want your friend to hate you, and people already know you like her brother, then you just need to be honest with her and say, hey. I still like your brother.
I mean, not many people would be immature enough to do something psychotic like end a friendship over a truthful statment like that. and as for getting him to ask a girl out, you might be the kind of girl he is trying to avoid, that standard mentality.
You see, you just talked about getting him to ask you out. Maybe he is like me, and wouldnt ever want to date a girl not independent enough to ask the guy out for a change. :)
Ask your sister about him, why he doesnt like girls. He might just be fed up with the overwhelmingly typical type of girl in todays world.
My advice, is to just follow whatever your heart tells you!
go up and ask then talk to him if you friend thinks its okay........the worst thing that could happen is well he could not like you........
Well.....hes like me,i never really asked a girl out yet....im kinda shy.....i think it would be easier if you girls gave us guys some hints...its hard to make a move on you girls if you always make it seem like you dont notice us,what i think you should do is say hi to that guy...if not then he'll probly be like me and not even bother with you EVER. So im just sayin its worth a shot =D
Let's make it real simple--do you REALLY like this guy? Then offer to be his girlfriend, tell him how you feel and be straight-forward.
If you care more about your friendship than him, then don't bother. You're only going to hurt him and you and your friend by making a lame attempt at a relationship. He's not worth your time if you can't give it to him.
Good luck!
i think you should first tell your friend you still like her brother regardless of how anti girfriend she says he is if she is your true friend she will not hate you then you should talk to him go for it hes probably just shy and needs you to make the first move...good luck!
Clear it with your friend first. Tell her point blank that you like him and are interested in a relationship. Tell her you want an honest answer as to how she feels about it. Tell her that you will respect her wishes, because your friendship is the most important to you because boys come and go, and friendship is what truly last. With all that said, make sure she understands how much you actually like him. When you get her honest answer, listen to her. If she is ok with it, go for it. If she is not, then respect her wishes. There are tons of guys at your school, I'm sure, and that is nothing compared to the world that's full of them. Odds are, ten years down the road, you will have no relationship with him, however, there's a great chance you %26amp; her will still be friends. Good Luck!
just tell her the truth if shes your friend you should be able to talk to her.if she gets mad then shes not a real friend.
you cant help how ya feel but what you do about says who you are.
ok?
first of all change your retarded looking avatar its distracting my thinking
i think you should get to know him better first. ask your friend before asking him. if you get to know him better you might be able to tell if he likes you or not that's how i did it! but I'm pretty much real straight forward..... and ummm... good luck...... yeah i feel weird telling someone that =/
of my classes. he was nice, funny and always helped me with homework. his sister-my friend-is a year younger than us.shes a really good friend cuz we both play a sport so we're together a lot. 1 day i told her i liked her brother she said hes weird and has never had a girlfriend and is like anti-girlfriend or something, she didnt really know how to explain him. i think hes just shy or doesnt know how to ask a girl out or something like that. anyways now thats its summer he has been away at camp and i havent seen/talked to him. really want him as my boyfriend, but i think that would be so awkword around my friend, (i think she thinks i dont like him anymore cuz she talks about him alot and doesnt ask if i like him anymore). a few days ago i told some1 i liked him and they're like ohh!! hes so cute, hes the nicest person ever you gotta do it!! everyone says that but idk what toI Need Some Advice About This Boy Please!!!?
Remember your friend first because she was there first. But if you really like him and don't make it uncomfortable for your friend then go for it. Just be honest with your friend, him, and yourself. Take it slow aswell never rush into things.I Need Some Advice About This Boy Please!!!?
I did not get u wat do wanna say???
Well me i'm not an expert in this type of situation my situation is so different but why would your friend hate you for something like that i mean if one of my younger friends liked my brother i wouldn't mind hey as long as my brother is happy it's cool with me and as long as my friend treats hiim right the only reason your friend would hate is if she allready had someone in mind to setup her brother with or she really doesn't likes you as a friend and pretends to be your friend or maybe she would get jealous that you would spent more time with her brother if you were his girlfriend then spending time quality with your younger friend.
If you dont want your friend to hate you, and people already know you like her brother, then you just need to be honest with her and say, hey. I still like your brother.
I mean, not many people would be immature enough to do something psychotic like end a friendship over a truthful statment like that. and as for getting him to ask a girl out, you might be the kind of girl he is trying to avoid, that standard mentality.
You see, you just talked about getting him to ask you out. Maybe he is like me, and wouldnt ever want to date a girl not independent enough to ask the guy out for a change. :)
Ask your sister about him, why he doesnt like girls. He might just be fed up with the overwhelmingly typical type of girl in todays world.
My advice, is to just follow whatever your heart tells you!
go up and ask then talk to him if you friend thinks its okay........the worst thing that could happen is well he could not like you........
Well.....hes like me,i never really asked a girl out yet....im kinda shy.....i think it would be easier if you girls gave us guys some hints...its hard to make a move on you girls if you always make it seem like you dont notice us,what i think you should do is say hi to that guy...if not then he'll probly be like me and not even bother with you EVER. So im just sayin its worth a shot =D
Let's make it real simple--do you REALLY like this guy? Then offer to be his girlfriend, tell him how you feel and be straight-forward.
If you care more about your friendship than him, then don't bother. You're only going to hurt him and you and your friend by making a lame attempt at a relationship. He's not worth your time if you can't give it to him.
Good luck!
i think you should first tell your friend you still like her brother regardless of how anti girfriend she says he is if she is your true friend she will not hate you then you should talk to him go for it hes probably just shy and needs you to make the first move...good luck!
Clear it with your friend first. Tell her point blank that you like him and are interested in a relationship. Tell her you want an honest answer as to how she feels about it. Tell her that you will respect her wishes, because your friendship is the most important to you because boys come and go, and friendship is what truly last. With all that said, make sure she understands how much you actually like him. When you get her honest answer, listen to her. If she is ok with it, go for it. If she is not, then respect her wishes. There are tons of guys at your school, I'm sure, and that is nothing compared to the world that's full of them. Odds are, ten years down the road, you will have no relationship with him, however, there's a great chance you %26amp; her will still be friends. Good Luck!
just tell her the truth if shes your friend you should be able to talk to her.if she gets mad then shes not a real friend.
you cant help how ya feel but what you do about says who you are.
ok?
first of all change your retarded looking avatar its distracting my thinking
i think you should get to know him better first. ask your friend before asking him. if you get to know him better you might be able to tell if he likes you or not that's how i did it! but I'm pretty much real straight forward..... and ummm... good luck...... yeah i feel weird telling someone that =/
Im 12 i need random advice please about anything?
treat others the way you would want to be treated. do not spread rumors . be a nice young lady with values and morals so you will grow up to be a nice young lady. don't follow what other kids are doing your age if you don't feel comfortable. that means in dating to. . Join clubs or sports keeps you active and out of trouble. and don't find trouble when trouble comes your way walk the other way.
be good to your parents and be a loving soul.Im 12 i need random advice please about anything?
Be kind to your mother, always wear clean underwear and bring an umbrella if its going to rain - with a career as an archaeologist google the schools name and see if its got a good reputation with the subject, there could be a better one a bit further away than you are looking for, but its worthwhile in the end because you will learn more :)Im 12 i need random advice please about anything?
some advice stay in school an dont listen to any of your friends when they want to ditch or go do drugs dont cut skool cuz u will get behind or end up dropping out if you get carried away by bad influence so stay in school and get your sellf a goal and a career
When you go into colder regions, don't eat yellow snow! Oh, and carrer and geting is spelled career and getting! There, random advice!
Ok, remember to stay in your books. In others words don't be so easy to stray with friends and do what they want you to do. Thats it. Enjoy.
stop eating garbage.
exercise.
learn something that you will be able to make money doing.
life goes by faster and faster with each day that passes.
don't get knocked up.
The best advice I can give you.. if you are 12.. don't come into this forum... read a book,, play a game... talk to your parents.
Yahoo answers is not the place for twelve year olds. Honest!
here's some advice!..... don't ask for random advice on answers.... :D
Never draw to an inside straight.
Limit what you will do for a free T shirt.
be good to your parents and be a loving soul.Im 12 i need random advice please about anything?
Be kind to your mother, always wear clean underwear and bring an umbrella if its going to rain - with a career as an archaeologist google the schools name and see if its got a good reputation with the subject, there could be a better one a bit further away than you are looking for, but its worthwhile in the end because you will learn more :)Im 12 i need random advice please about anything?
some advice stay in school an dont listen to any of your friends when they want to ditch or go do drugs dont cut skool cuz u will get behind or end up dropping out if you get carried away by bad influence so stay in school and get your sellf a goal and a career
When you go into colder regions, don't eat yellow snow! Oh, and carrer and geting is spelled career and getting! There, random advice!
Ok, remember to stay in your books. In others words don't be so easy to stray with friends and do what they want you to do. Thats it. Enjoy.
stop eating garbage.
exercise.
learn something that you will be able to make money doing.
life goes by faster and faster with each day that passes.
don't get knocked up.
The best advice I can give you.. if you are 12.. don't come into this forum... read a book,, play a game... talk to your parents.
Yahoo answers is not the place for twelve year olds. Honest!
here's some advice!..... don't ask for random advice on answers.... :D
Never draw to an inside straight.
Limit what you will do for a free T shirt.
HELP! I need advice about a boy!?!?!?
My best friend is 18 and im 15. and i really like her younger brother!!! But they hate each other! and they live across the country every time i see them i think he might like me but i dont know. is it wrong to like him and i dont no if i should make a move!?!? every time we see each other we get closer but i dont no wat to do! HELP?!!!!!HELP! I need advice about a boy!?!?!?
long distance isn't good. Sounds like drama. Don't.HELP! I need advice about a boy!?!?!?
yes, i don't think you should date her brother.
dont the girls have a saying like:
chicks before d*cks or something?
of course its not WRONG to like him, you can't help it. however, if you think this could ruin a great friendship with you best friend, i would advise against being more than friends with him. boyfriends don't usually last as long as friendships, especially with girlfriends. i wouldn't date him unless you are planning to marry him. If they truly HATE each other, decide which you value more, because its kind of hard to have your 2 best friends hate each other if they know each other.
if you really like him, than your friend will understand. if you're worried that she wouldn't, than ask her. if she seems completely disgusted by the idea, hide it by saying 'just kidding!!', and smile. if you're not worried about her approval, but his, than give it a try, don't go too far before you know for sure, though, or things might turn out ugly. good luck!!
Jump his bones. ^_^
I would simply recommend talking to the boy. If you find out he likes you too and wants to pursue something, then you should talk to his older sister and see if she would mind. It could put a large strain on your friendship because she may feel as she is coming 2nd to him. You need to make it clear to her that you are engaging in a relationship with him, but you will always be friends with her, regardless of how the relationship with her brother plays out. It will also be important for you to ask her if it is okay if you talk to her about issues you are having in the relationship, it may be that she is uncomfortable knowing things about her brother in that way. I think you need to think about how you intend to juggle it, splitting your time between them equally like you would do if you were engaging in a relationship with anyone. Talk to the boy first, and if he likes you, then go to your best friend. By talking to the boy first, you relieve yourself and your best friend of any unnecessary tension. Good luck!
never go for a freinds brother, causes to much trouble for all concerned.
TOSS MY SALAD!!!!
definitely do NOT.
a girl who i was friends with (not best) but still close, i found out she hookedup/madeout with my brother and we were never friends after that. when people found out they thought it was really messed up for her to do that. ontop of that i lost all respect for her. its just something you dont do, a true friend wouldnt do it. its one thing if you hookedup and then became friends with her, but other than that... nononono dont do it if you want to keep your friendship
im a guy and i know some stuff ok? first how old is this guy? if he is under your age........ well thats kinda weird cause the guy usualy is older than the women not that im sexist though im sorry if u think that but ive heard that saying alot....but if u love him alot gofor it im not god or anything and i didnt TELL u to do anything.
talk to her!!!!!!!!!!!! use an icebreaker like when ur on the subject of guys anyway. u HAVE to make it right with her or otherwise it will b MORE awkward whenever u go over there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! just dont think about it 2 much. hope it helps
Okay well if he likes you, he probably is already noticing you. You could do your hair differently, or where ever he goes follow. And plus you could find out what he likes and strike up conversation.
i say talk to her and him about things and how u feel
How old is he? If you like him and he likes you...sure go for it, but remember it'd be long distance.
Follow your heart and your friend, if she is really your friend, will understand, and maybe all three of you will become closer!
What's more important your best friend or the possibility that her brother might like you.....they don't go hand in hand. If you take a chance and he doesn't like it you've totally blown it. And, if he's interested let HIM make the move. Then your friend can't hate you.
just talk to him
i like salads
this might cause probs w/friend mabey u should talk to her about it to get a feel for her reaction
Ask yourself: is your friend important to you? If you date her brother, she may get VERY upset with you. For girls, it's more important to keep your girl friends than to date guys. The same goes for guys: it's more important to keep your guy friends than trade them for girlfriends.
Don't let fear stop you from exploring! Your path is your own have fun.
You should do what your heart tells you. If you like someone tell them if you think they might feel the same way. Your friend should understand any decision you make no matter what.
No Dear, it's not wrong to like him! You can't help when the love bug bites!! If she truly is your best friend then she will understand how you feel. Who knows, it might even help bring them closer together. Good Luck and relax and let nature take it's course. When you are around him, act just like you always have. You said that ever time you see each other you get closer, so have fun and take things easy!!! Good Luck, all will work out in the long run, don't worry too much!!
idk
I think you have the right to like anyone you want. I would suggest a serious talk with your best friend before you make a move so you can explain the situation to her, and she should understand your feelings, im mean shes your best friend. Just dont try to make it without her knowledge otherwise it could be worse.
Good luck ;)
maybe you can help them with their relationship...through the guy of course...you'll get closer in a positive way but won't be in a romantic relationship
Find someone else to like.... There are plenty of fish in the sea, and I am sure you will find someone wonderful, because you deserve nothing less... Sorry hon that you are in this situation, but chin up!
dont make the first move...
forget him
You're 15 and believe me there are plenty of guys in your future. Don't risk a friendship over some guy who lives across the country.
It is definetly not wrong to like him!!! I say you go and make a move, girl! If your best friend has a problem with you liking him, she has some serious issues. A best friend, in my opinion, is someone who loves you no matter what you get yourself into, even if it means dating her brother. If she's truely your best friend, she will love you no matter what you do in life. That's what BFF's are for!
You're Best Friend is Not You're Brain She's You're Partner. But Don't Choose A Guy Over You're Best Friend Or Else Yo u Won't Have Any';! So it's Really What You're Hart Desires For You Ask Him Out When You're Friend Not Around';! Inplus She'll Be Going Off To College Soon Right';?
long distance isn't good. Sounds like drama. Don't.HELP! I need advice about a boy!?!?!?
yes, i don't think you should date her brother.
dont the girls have a saying like:
chicks before d*cks or something?
of course its not WRONG to like him, you can't help it. however, if you think this could ruin a great friendship with you best friend, i would advise against being more than friends with him. boyfriends don't usually last as long as friendships, especially with girlfriends. i wouldn't date him unless you are planning to marry him. If they truly HATE each other, decide which you value more, because its kind of hard to have your 2 best friends hate each other if they know each other.
if you really like him, than your friend will understand. if you're worried that she wouldn't, than ask her. if she seems completely disgusted by the idea, hide it by saying 'just kidding!!', and smile. if you're not worried about her approval, but his, than give it a try, don't go too far before you know for sure, though, or things might turn out ugly. good luck!!
Jump his bones. ^_^
I would simply recommend talking to the boy. If you find out he likes you too and wants to pursue something, then you should talk to his older sister and see if she would mind. It could put a large strain on your friendship because she may feel as she is coming 2nd to him. You need to make it clear to her that you are engaging in a relationship with him, but you will always be friends with her, regardless of how the relationship with her brother plays out. It will also be important for you to ask her if it is okay if you talk to her about issues you are having in the relationship, it may be that she is uncomfortable knowing things about her brother in that way. I think you need to think about how you intend to juggle it, splitting your time between them equally like you would do if you were engaging in a relationship with anyone. Talk to the boy first, and if he likes you, then go to your best friend. By talking to the boy first, you relieve yourself and your best friend of any unnecessary tension. Good luck!
never go for a freinds brother, causes to much trouble for all concerned.
TOSS MY SALAD!!!!
definitely do NOT.
a girl who i was friends with (not best) but still close, i found out she hookedup/madeout with my brother and we were never friends after that. when people found out they thought it was really messed up for her to do that. ontop of that i lost all respect for her. its just something you dont do, a true friend wouldnt do it. its one thing if you hookedup and then became friends with her, but other than that... nononono dont do it if you want to keep your friendship
im a guy and i know some stuff ok? first how old is this guy? if he is under your age........ well thats kinda weird cause the guy usualy is older than the women not that im sexist though im sorry if u think that but ive heard that saying alot....but if u love him alot gofor it im not god or anything and i didnt TELL u to do anything.
talk to her!!!!!!!!!!!! use an icebreaker like when ur on the subject of guys anyway. u HAVE to make it right with her or otherwise it will b MORE awkward whenever u go over there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! just dont think about it 2 much. hope it helps
Okay well if he likes you, he probably is already noticing you. You could do your hair differently, or where ever he goes follow. And plus you could find out what he likes and strike up conversation.
i say talk to her and him about things and how u feel
How old is he? If you like him and he likes you...sure go for it, but remember it'd be long distance.
Follow your heart and your friend, if she is really your friend, will understand, and maybe all three of you will become closer!
What's more important your best friend or the possibility that her brother might like you.....they don't go hand in hand. If you take a chance and he doesn't like it you've totally blown it. And, if he's interested let HIM make the move. Then your friend can't hate you.
just talk to him
i like salads
this might cause probs w/friend mabey u should talk to her about it to get a feel for her reaction
Ask yourself: is your friend important to you? If you date her brother, she may get VERY upset with you. For girls, it's more important to keep your girl friends than to date guys. The same goes for guys: it's more important to keep your guy friends than trade them for girlfriends.
Don't let fear stop you from exploring! Your path is your own have fun.
You should do what your heart tells you. If you like someone tell them if you think they might feel the same way. Your friend should understand any decision you make no matter what.
No Dear, it's not wrong to like him! You can't help when the love bug bites!! If she truly is your best friend then she will understand how you feel. Who knows, it might even help bring them closer together. Good Luck and relax and let nature take it's course. When you are around him, act just like you always have. You said that ever time you see each other you get closer, so have fun and take things easy!!! Good Luck, all will work out in the long run, don't worry too much!!
idk
I think you have the right to like anyone you want. I would suggest a serious talk with your best friend before you make a move so you can explain the situation to her, and she should understand your feelings, im mean shes your best friend. Just dont try to make it without her knowledge otherwise it could be worse.
Good luck ;)
maybe you can help them with their relationship...through the guy of course...you'll get closer in a positive way but won't be in a romantic relationship
Find someone else to like.... There are plenty of fish in the sea, and I am sure you will find someone wonderful, because you deserve nothing less... Sorry hon that you are in this situation, but chin up!
dont make the first move...
forget him
You're 15 and believe me there are plenty of guys in your future. Don't risk a friendship over some guy who lives across the country.
It is definetly not wrong to like him!!! I say you go and make a move, girl! If your best friend has a problem with you liking him, she has some serious issues. A best friend, in my opinion, is someone who loves you no matter what you get yourself into, even if it means dating her brother. If she's truely your best friend, she will love you no matter what you do in life. That's what BFF's are for!
You're Best Friend is Not You're Brain She's You're Partner. But Don't Choose A Guy Over You're Best Friend Or Else Yo u Won't Have Any';! So it's Really What You're Hart Desires For You Ask Him Out When You're Friend Not Around';! Inplus She'll Be Going Off To College Soon Right';?
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Pls help.....need advice about a wierd reaction....am confused and my ego hurts!?
I am confused about a reaction from this guy I've been seeing for the past few months...since we met, he has persued me %26amp; wanted to move fast into a commitment %26amp; I held off, saying I'd like to be friends for a while...recently, I thought I should reciprocate to him also %26amp; started doing that a couple of dates we got quite cozy %26amp; all his friends have the impression we are going out.....now, i went on vacation for 2 weeks %26amp; came back, since then, i met him a couple of times %26amp; he's been really wierd....not like his usual self, then yesterday, we met %26amp; in the middle of a convo he said he's been thinking about us %26amp; where we are going %26amp; we should be friends! i was surprised, it was like he s saying i m the one behind him than vice versa! i didn t want to make a big deal so i said yes we are friends only but i want to know Y the sudden change of heart? should i talk to him about it? I don t want to lose this now that i m also feeling some attraction, can i get him back without sounding needy?Pls help.....need advice about a wierd reaction....am confused and my ego hurts!?
sounds like you're both pretty confused. You should talk to him about it seriously. Men like t ochase women and you denied him maybe he's trying to do it now.Pls help.....need advice about a wierd reaction....am confused and my ego hurts!?
Listen carefully. the vacation was overexposure. too much of you and he is saying ';lets ease off';. You need to leave some distance between you, make him miss you. You shouldn't be on his answering machine every day and he should not see you standing there every time he walks in a room. give him space. It is worth continuing the relationship if you see he starts to chase again. Otherwise, accept that the fire is out and move on.
If you were not on the vacation with him chances are that he found someone else while you were away
sounds like you're both pretty confused. You should talk to him about it seriously. Men like t ochase women and you denied him maybe he's trying to do it now.Pls help.....need advice about a wierd reaction....am confused and my ego hurts!?
Listen carefully. the vacation was overexposure. too much of you and he is saying ';lets ease off';. You need to leave some distance between you, make him miss you. You shouldn't be on his answering machine every day and he should not see you standing there every time he walks in a room. give him space. It is worth continuing the relationship if you see he starts to chase again. Otherwise, accept that the fire is out and move on.
If you were not on the vacation with him chances are that he found someone else while you were away
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