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I need some advice about the ladies.....im lost???
Im 21 and me and my ex have been always close.... We went out for 4 years until she had to move up north bc of katrina, her father never liked me bc i wasnt a hick like him and it had an effect on our relationship.... 2 years pass and I bump into her and amazingly we live an hour away from each other.... we both decided to go get some coffee and catch up. She told me that it was good to see me and she wondered about me... we talked for several hours before she had to go to class (she wants to move out of state and work in africa as a doctor) and right before she leaves we give each other the longest hug in the world, we were so close to each other and I never wanted it to end.. then she ask me ';we're friends right???'; I replyed ';deff'; Now maybe she moved on but we are going to hang out pretty soon....should I treat her like a friend, or should I flirt and go for it????I need some advice about the ladies.....im lost???
wow you must really want to know this! omg you've asked this question like a million times!!!I need some advice about the ladies.....im lost???
Treat her like a friend, but ask her if she is seeing anyone. Depending on the response you get, go from there. If she is not seeing anyone, but gives the impression that she doesn't want you to go out with her, then still treat her like a friend.
hey, as soon as you have been labeled ';friend'; in a female's mind, then you are no longer of romanic interest. The friend is not going to jump to the lover position. If you are wanting her for romantic reasons, you will be sad a depressed and she will put you lower on her list of friends. The best thing you can do is accept that she is now your friend and not a potential lover. Good luck and find a new g/f.
go for it immediatley show her what she's been missing and even if she is seeing someone she will come to her senses and be with u again.lips
wow you must really want to know this! omg you've asked this question like a million times!!!I need some advice about the ladies.....im lost???
Treat her like a friend, but ask her if she is seeing anyone. Depending on the response you get, go from there. If she is not seeing anyone, but gives the impression that she doesn't want you to go out with her, then still treat her like a friend.
hey, as soon as you have been labeled ';friend'; in a female's mind, then you are no longer of romanic interest. The friend is not going to jump to the lover position. If you are wanting her for romantic reasons, you will be sad a depressed and she will put you lower on her list of friends. The best thing you can do is accept that she is now your friend and not a potential lover. Good luck and find a new g/f.
go for it immediatley show her what she's been missing and even if she is seeing someone she will come to her senses and be with u again.
I need your advice about my mother's problem.....?
My mother is 75 and since I remember she used to provoke jeoulsy between her children to force them to do things that she wanted....For example if my brother wouldn't study she would tell him how my sister was good at school.and if my sister was not obeying what she wanted she would tell her how wise and mature my brother was and if I was naughty she would tell how my brother and sister were and would never do such a things I were doing.....well the result is that none of the children have good relationship with each other and of course with her now....although she was a wonderful mother and was very caring and had sacrifised everything in her life for the sake of her children....even now when she wants something from me she does the same thing she first admires my brother or my sister in front of me because of what she desires and then she asks me what she wants me to do.she is old and fragile now ...so what can I do when I get angry with this?I need your advice about my mother's problem.....?
Don't give in and reward her for her behavior. Apparently her tactics have worked or she wouldn't still be using them on you all.I need your advice about my mother's problem.....?
It was only love (and repeat-only love) of your mother. Just remember it and love your mother.
What a dummer - this is somewhat known as mental abuse
even though your mother probably thinks that she is just trying to motivate her children she has really created a mess. Because of her age and the fact you stated that she was a wonderful mother I think everytime you get angry all you have to do is think ----- My mother has taught me not to be a person
that admires one child over another - not to compare their lifes - not to downgrade - not to mentally abuse my children
but to treat as an individual. Think about it she has taught you
alot about how to be an understanding person and not to play
head games like she has done for years..
Don't follow in her footsteps - be strong!!!!
Ok first things first, although you and your siblings don't have good relationships with each other, if you have kids, I hope you learned something from this and want do this to your kids. As for your mother, she had did this for so long she can't help herself. Depending on her health, you all need to sit her down and have a talk with her and let her know this kind of behavior will not work anymore and explain to her how it has affected your relationship towards each other. If this doesn't work, try your best to forgive her for it and love your mother for the time she has left on this earth. Think about the good things you said about your mother and weigh that against the millions of kids in this world that mothers abused them, left them, or just didn't show any love towards them.
Your mother is 75. You're an adult. Get over it.
Don't give in and reward her for her behavior. Apparently her tactics have worked or she wouldn't still be using them on you all.I need your advice about my mother's problem.....?
It was only love (and repeat-only love) of your mother. Just remember it and love your mother.
What a dummer - this is somewhat known as mental abuse
even though your mother probably thinks that she is just trying to motivate her children she has really created a mess. Because of her age and the fact you stated that she was a wonderful mother I think everytime you get angry all you have to do is think ----- My mother has taught me not to be a person
that admires one child over another - not to compare their lifes - not to downgrade - not to mentally abuse my children
but to treat as an individual. Think about it she has taught you
alot about how to be an understanding person and not to play
head games like she has done for years..
Don't follow in her footsteps - be strong!!!!
Ok first things first, although you and your siblings don't have good relationships with each other, if you have kids, I hope you learned something from this and want do this to your kids. As for your mother, she had did this for so long she can't help herself. Depending on her health, you all need to sit her down and have a talk with her and let her know this kind of behavior will not work anymore and explain to her how it has affected your relationship towards each other. If this doesn't work, try your best to forgive her for it and love your mother for the time she has left on this earth. Think about the good things you said about your mother and weigh that against the millions of kids in this world that mothers abused them, left them, or just didn't show any love towards them.
Your mother is 75. You're an adult. Get over it.
Please help!! need advice about boobs....?
i just asked a question about how to make my breastmilk dry up. I nursed for 4 days.
it is now day 5.
i would just like to add that i am no longer breastfeeding.
now my boobs are sore, leaking and super hard!
please help!!Please help!! need advice about boobs....?
I just had this talk with my Dr, as I am about to give birth to my second child, whom I don't plan on breastfeeding like I did with my first one. First off, they don't give pills or shots anymore to clear it up. Second, NEVER use warm water or cloths, as this makes you leak and will help produce more milk, use ice packs or frozen cabbage in a sports type bra. My Dr said my hospital will supply you with plenty of ice packs or even put the cabbage in the freezer if I supply it! get lots of nursing pads, a few sports bras, some ice, and Tylenol (as you may get a fever) for engorgement. It may take a few weeks...Please help!! need advice about boobs....?
This may sound a little strange, but my doctor had me put cabbage leaves in my bra. The coolness of the leaves felt wonderful and it drew the soreness out of them (the leaves will actually wilt from the heat of your breasts). In a few days your milk should dry up, also taking Alieve will help. Good luck!
how old is your baby? and why stop breast feeding? its a lot healthier for your baby than formula feeding.
All you can do is stop nursing to make them dry up, it'll take up to a week, and there gonna be sore....Don't pump to relieve the pain cause it'll just make it worse. gl
why would you stop breast feeding at 4 days!?
This is going to sound ridiculous and when my doctor told me I laughed. When I wanted to dry my milk after they were on the bottle, he said to put a single cabbage leaf on to each breast. Your milk will dry up in a day or so. IT WORKS!
You can talk to your doctor about pills to help them dry up but until then you have to try warm water on them or like i did, put cold peas in your bra for a week with tighter than normal bras
all you can do is leave them alone i breastfeed for a week and i just stop and now my baby is two months and there all dry.
You should buy a breastpump anyway and try to pump out the remaining milk. You are risking milk fever, if you don't have it already. Ask your OB about pain relief , and tell them you chose not to breastfeed,they should give you a prescription to help dry them. up. Congrats on your new baby :)
of course you're going to feel engorged.
You can talk to you doc about pills to help you dry up, some say put frozen cabbage leaves in your bra
To relieve the pain now, put a warm wash cloth over your breasts or run them under warm water
Now that you've established your milk supply you should really ween it down... Like pump a couple of times a day just enough to relieve pressure. Less and less each day until you are dried up... I can't imagine why if you have a good milk supply and the baby latches well you wouldn't want to continue breast feeding...
Anyhow... You can soak your breasts in large bowls of warm water. Some will leak out but if you do not stimulate them your breasts won't think it needs to make more. It will just relieve some of the pressure. I know some birth control pills will cause your milk supply to dry up. They have pills at the Dr's... The refrigerated cabbage leaves really act as contoured cold packs. Mostly helpful for mastitis...
Also wear a tight fitting bra like a sports bra. Do not let the water run on them in the shower or stimulate them at all!!!
You should have called your hospitals lactation consultant about the bleeding nipples!!! OUCH. You can use Lansino if your nipples are still uncomfortable. You can still call labor and delivery and ask them this question. The nurses know this stuff and know you... It sounds like it will help you to actually TALK to a knowledgeable person tonight!!!
It is going to take time. You can use cold cabbage leaves in your bra to help releive the pain. Also, if you shower in hot water some of the milk will come out. If you pump you will just make more milk to replace the stuff you took out.
it is now day 5.
i would just like to add that i am no longer breastfeeding.
now my boobs are sore, leaking and super hard!
please help!!Please help!! need advice about boobs....?
I just had this talk with my Dr, as I am about to give birth to my second child, whom I don't plan on breastfeeding like I did with my first one. First off, they don't give pills or shots anymore to clear it up. Second, NEVER use warm water or cloths, as this makes you leak and will help produce more milk, use ice packs or frozen cabbage in a sports type bra. My Dr said my hospital will supply you with plenty of ice packs or even put the cabbage in the freezer if I supply it! get lots of nursing pads, a few sports bras, some ice, and Tylenol (as you may get a fever) for engorgement. It may take a few weeks...Please help!! need advice about boobs....?
This may sound a little strange, but my doctor had me put cabbage leaves in my bra. The coolness of the leaves felt wonderful and it drew the soreness out of them (the leaves will actually wilt from the heat of your breasts). In a few days your milk should dry up, also taking Alieve will help. Good luck!
how old is your baby? and why stop breast feeding? its a lot healthier for your baby than formula feeding.
All you can do is stop nursing to make them dry up, it'll take up to a week, and there gonna be sore....Don't pump to relieve the pain cause it'll just make it worse. gl
why would you stop breast feeding at 4 days!?
This is going to sound ridiculous and when my doctor told me I laughed. When I wanted to dry my milk after they were on the bottle, he said to put a single cabbage leaf on to each breast. Your milk will dry up in a day or so. IT WORKS!
You can talk to your doctor about pills to help them dry up but until then you have to try warm water on them or like i did, put cold peas in your bra for a week with tighter than normal bras
all you can do is leave them alone i breastfeed for a week and i just stop and now my baby is two months and there all dry.
You should buy a breastpump anyway and try to pump out the remaining milk. You are risking milk fever, if you don't have it already. Ask your OB about pain relief , and tell them you chose not to breastfeed,they should give you a prescription to help dry them. up. Congrats on your new baby :)
of course you're going to feel engorged.
You can talk to you doc about pills to help you dry up, some say put frozen cabbage leaves in your bra
To relieve the pain now, put a warm wash cloth over your breasts or run them under warm water
Now that you've established your milk supply you should really ween it down... Like pump a couple of times a day just enough to relieve pressure. Less and less each day until you are dried up... I can't imagine why if you have a good milk supply and the baby latches well you wouldn't want to continue breast feeding...
Anyhow... You can soak your breasts in large bowls of warm water. Some will leak out but if you do not stimulate them your breasts won't think it needs to make more. It will just relieve some of the pressure. I know some birth control pills will cause your milk supply to dry up. They have pills at the Dr's... The refrigerated cabbage leaves really act as contoured cold packs. Mostly helpful for mastitis...
Also wear a tight fitting bra like a sports bra. Do not let the water run on them in the shower or stimulate them at all!!!
You should have called your hospitals lactation consultant about the bleeding nipples!!! OUCH. You can use Lansino if your nipples are still uncomfortable. You can still call labor and delivery and ask them this question. The nurses know this stuff and know you... It sounds like it will help you to actually TALK to a knowledgeable person tonight!!!
It is going to take time. You can use cold cabbage leaves in your bra to help releive the pain. Also, if you shower in hot water some of the milk will come out. If you pump you will just make more milk to replace the stuff you took out.
I need some advice about my g.f?
Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 months now and it's been great. I can trust her totally. But she talks 2 WAY too many guys. I'm pretty sure a lot of them flirt with her. I mean I don't want to be an *** though and say to stop hanging with guys from now on. And to worsen the matter she started talking to one of my best friends. So now hes on her top on myspace and vice versa. I also saw the picture comment he left and he called her sexy :'(. I love her and don't wanna break up with her though! This f*cking sucks! Can anyone be kind enuff to find a solution so I don't have to break up with her?I need some advice about my g.f?
Wut up.
So how old are you? I'm guessing later high school or college? I don't know many 40 year olds that use facebook and myspace, lol. Alright, let's get to the question...
You're worried that your girl is going to dump you for your best friend, all while you're just sitting there watching it happen in front of your eyes, right?
You're the guy that is comitted to her - but she's almost drifting away from you. Don't get me wrong - she still likes you - but she sure seems to spend a lot of time doing this so called ';flirting'; with other men. And to top it off she has guys leaving ';sexy'; comments on her myspace?!
Hey - if you haven't guess it already - I can relate. Yup. Been there and done that. How did it turn out. Well, I could just quote you by saying that ';it f**king sucked';. Need I say more?
Now, before I continue, you make the choice.
Sit here watching your relationship slowly dwindling away. Watch her become MORE attracted to other men and leave you.
OR
Stop trying to ';hold'; onto this girl. YOU get the power back in the relationship and learn how you can stop worrying about your girl leaving you for other guys.
Sound good? I thought so.
Have you actually told her to stop hanging out with other guys? I hope you haven't....
Uhh, let's see, now she's advancing on your best friends? Even made it as one of her top friends?! (Lol, I laugh because I have dial-up and myspace = SLOW!)
What to do...Hmm...
You don't want to break up with her. That's for sure. I can still tell you like this girl. Which is good. That's why I'm helping.
What's my solution?
ENCOURAGE this girl to be more independent. Huh?
Brock, you're completely insane, then she's just going to dump me even faster!
Listen for just a minute...
You're not the first guy that's gone through this before. But what have 99% of other men tried to do when this happens to them? They try to HOLD on to her. They DON'T encourage a woman to be more indpendent. What happens?
The women does it even more and will end up leaving sooner or later. It's a fact.
Kind of like the cookie in the cookie jar. The more your mom told you NOT to grab it, the more you just had to have a taste.
Catch my drift?
Also, by actually ENCOURAGING this girl to go out, YOU become more attractive. Why?
You're communicating that you're not needy. You're not worried about other guys. You know that she'll come back to you. You're confident and you're the natural born leader.
It also says that you have your OWN life. That you can handle her being out with other people - it's actually a good thing in a relationship!
So here's what I would do..
# 1 - Go back to dial-up. Then you'll be forced to not use myspace, facebook, etc. Honestly, myspace can ruin relationships. Learn to live without it. You'll thank me later.
# 2 - Show that you're the one in control of the relationship. Let her have her fun and go out with other guys.
Let's say you're talking with her on the phone...
You - ';Wut up.';
Her - ';Nothing, just planning to go out tonight?';
You - ';Oh, yeah, I was going to tell you. I'm busy tonight going out with the guys and tommorow I'm going to (some place).';
Her - ';Oh, really, with who?';
You - ';Haha...who ever shows up. It's gonna be a good time. You said you're going out tonight?';
Her - ';yeah.';
You - ';Good. Actually have some fun tonight. You ALWAYS seem to have your butt glued to that couch. I hate to say it - but I can't be dating a girl that watches more TV than me!';
Her - ';yeah right?!';
You - ';Hey, I'm being honest. You're going to get a bigger booty and pretty soon you won't even be able to fit in my car. How are we going to go anywhere together? Think about it.';
Can you see what I'm doing here? You're communicating that you're independent, you're qualifying her to be your girlfriend, and you're having a good time.
Also, this will create ATTRACTION. Bingo! That's what you need. Quit worrying about the other guys - let them worry abotu you.
Get the idea?
I'll leave it at that, but, you know, shoot me an email because I would like to help you out more.
Yeah, go ahead and email me at
brockdarock33@gmail.com
and I'd be more than willing to help you out.
Brock
P.S. DUDE! I just read that message you wrote. Horrible! You're killing it! Listen to what I'm saying - I'm here to help!I need some advice about my g.f?
i think u shuld tell her how u feel instead of getting jealous cuz that can lead to destroying the freindship with ur best friend. ur gf may talk to alot of guys but they culd just be talking not flirting.soo mabe talk to ur friend to and say lay off my girl.sumin nicer tho
Jealousy is a relationship killer, trust me....
You need to talk with her, and put your feelings out there. At least she will know how you feel about the apparent ';flirting.'; You also need to know about what she is feeling, too. Maybe she likes the attention, or maybe she is just friendly. You won't know until you have an honest heart-to-heart.
It could be harmless flirting.
You need to observe if her flirting leads to more or if it just stops there.
You should be happy that so many guys find your girlfriend so sexy. It should make you feel good because you are the one that has her not them. And if you trust her and there is no proof that she is being unfaithful, you should just get over it and enjoy your relationship with her. Take it as a compliment that so many find her so attractive.
Tell her you thought you and her were in a relationship and you don't appreciate her talking to so many guys in that flirting type of manner. Ask her if it would bother her to see the same from you?
You should ask yourself if maybe you two should just date so you both can do your own thing and trust wont be an issue.
I am a girl who hangs out with more guys than girls. The reason is because girls are always about some type of drama. Also you should talk to your friend about the comments he made. It is not her fault. Who cares if she put him on her top friends it is because she likes you and probably wants to get along with your friends rather they dont like her and so on. If you break it off with her than your friend might move in because thay will think you are being childish and she deserves to be with someone else.....When you started talking to her you knew what kind of friends she had and I wouldnt judge her by that. if she wanted to be with them then i am sure she would have already would have been
It may be hard as i find it hard talkin to my boyfrined about my feelings but you should tellher how you feel, if you get it off your chest an talk to her about it you will feel alot better as i always feel better when iv spoke to my boyfriend about something thats bothering me
Wait and hope. There must be trust in a relationship. Talk to her and listen to what she says. It might not be what you want to hear.
i have a solution. talk to her! she is allowed to have friends, guys or girls and it is good to see you understand that. they might flirt with her but what does she do in response? does she tell them to stop, tell them she has a boyfriend? etc etc
you can not tell her to stop hanging out with guys. if you do not trust her then you need to talk to her. not blaming or accusing her of anything but just letting her know how you feel. but at the same time she needs to know there are boundaries with you and your friends. besides, myspace is an online thing. so it could mean nothing.
you have only been with her for 2 months, so you need to address this problem as soon as possible.
honestly my gurl just did the same **** all her friends were tellin me **** and then she finally told me the truth but idk im still with mine and were doin ok so just ask her about it.
dont tell her not to hang out with guys thats just wrong.
Just tell her exactly what you told us. that you love her, that you wish she wouldn't talk to so many guys, but that she shouldn't stop talking to guys entirely!
A little communication should do the trick!
Good luck!
just go up 2 her and in a kind matter ask her if she really likes u........then go 2 ur frend and ask him if he has an ongoing relationship wiv ur gf.....or if he evr did........(remember ask politely).....
let ur gf have other guy frends but dont let them take over her.....and as 4 the sexy thingy.....my bf's frend also calls me sexy but not in a way that he wants to capture me!!
hope i helped!!!!!
Wut up.
So how old are you? I'm guessing later high school or college? I don't know many 40 year olds that use facebook and myspace, lol. Alright, let's get to the question...
You're worried that your girl is going to dump you for your best friend, all while you're just sitting there watching it happen in front of your eyes, right?
You're the guy that is comitted to her - but she's almost drifting away from you. Don't get me wrong - she still likes you - but she sure seems to spend a lot of time doing this so called ';flirting'; with other men. And to top it off she has guys leaving ';sexy'; comments on her myspace?!
Hey - if you haven't guess it already - I can relate. Yup. Been there and done that. How did it turn out. Well, I could just quote you by saying that ';it f**king sucked';. Need I say more?
Now, before I continue, you make the choice.
Sit here watching your relationship slowly dwindling away. Watch her become MORE attracted to other men and leave you.
OR
Stop trying to ';hold'; onto this girl. YOU get the power back in the relationship and learn how you can stop worrying about your girl leaving you for other guys.
Sound good? I thought so.
Have you actually told her to stop hanging out with other guys? I hope you haven't....
Uhh, let's see, now she's advancing on your best friends? Even made it as one of her top friends?! (Lol, I laugh because I have dial-up and myspace = SLOW!)
What to do...Hmm...
You don't want to break up with her. That's for sure. I can still tell you like this girl. Which is good. That's why I'm helping.
What's my solution?
ENCOURAGE this girl to be more independent. Huh?
Brock, you're completely insane, then she's just going to dump me even faster!
Listen for just a minute...
You're not the first guy that's gone through this before. But what have 99% of other men tried to do when this happens to them? They try to HOLD on to her. They DON'T encourage a woman to be more indpendent. What happens?
The women does it even more and will end up leaving sooner or later. It's a fact.
Kind of like the cookie in the cookie jar. The more your mom told you NOT to grab it, the more you just had to have a taste.
Catch my drift?
Also, by actually ENCOURAGING this girl to go out, YOU become more attractive. Why?
You're communicating that you're not needy. You're not worried about other guys. You know that she'll come back to you. You're confident and you're the natural born leader.
It also says that you have your OWN life. That you can handle her being out with other people - it's actually a good thing in a relationship!
So here's what I would do..
# 1 - Go back to dial-up. Then you'll be forced to not use myspace, facebook, etc. Honestly, myspace can ruin relationships. Learn to live without it. You'll thank me later.
# 2 - Show that you're the one in control of the relationship. Let her have her fun and go out with other guys.
Let's say you're talking with her on the phone...
You - ';Wut up.';
Her - ';Nothing, just planning to go out tonight?';
You - ';Oh, yeah, I was going to tell you. I'm busy tonight going out with the guys and tommorow I'm going to (some place).';
Her - ';Oh, really, with who?';
You - ';Haha...who ever shows up. It's gonna be a good time. You said you're going out tonight?';
Her - ';yeah.';
You - ';Good. Actually have some fun tonight. You ALWAYS seem to have your butt glued to that couch. I hate to say it - but I can't be dating a girl that watches more TV than me!';
Her - ';yeah right?!';
You - ';Hey, I'm being honest. You're going to get a bigger booty and pretty soon you won't even be able to fit in my car. How are we going to go anywhere together? Think about it.';
Can you see what I'm doing here? You're communicating that you're independent, you're qualifying her to be your girlfriend, and you're having a good time.
Also, this will create ATTRACTION. Bingo! That's what you need. Quit worrying about the other guys - let them worry abotu you.
Get the idea?
I'll leave it at that, but, you know, shoot me an email because I would like to help you out more.
Yeah, go ahead and email me at
brockdarock33@gmail.com
and I'd be more than willing to help you out.
Brock
P.S. DUDE! I just read that message you wrote. Horrible! You're killing it! Listen to what I'm saying - I'm here to help!I need some advice about my g.f?
i think u shuld tell her how u feel instead of getting jealous cuz that can lead to destroying the freindship with ur best friend. ur gf may talk to alot of guys but they culd just be talking not flirting.soo mabe talk to ur friend to and say lay off my girl.sumin nicer tho
Jealousy is a relationship killer, trust me....
You need to talk with her, and put your feelings out there. At least she will know how you feel about the apparent ';flirting.'; You also need to know about what she is feeling, too. Maybe she likes the attention, or maybe she is just friendly. You won't know until you have an honest heart-to-heart.
It could be harmless flirting.
You need to observe if her flirting leads to more or if it just stops there.
You should be happy that so many guys find your girlfriend so sexy. It should make you feel good because you are the one that has her not them. And if you trust her and there is no proof that she is being unfaithful, you should just get over it and enjoy your relationship with her. Take it as a compliment that so many find her so attractive.
Tell her you thought you and her were in a relationship and you don't appreciate her talking to so many guys in that flirting type of manner. Ask her if it would bother her to see the same from you?
You should ask yourself if maybe you two should just date so you both can do your own thing and trust wont be an issue.
I am a girl who hangs out with more guys than girls. The reason is because girls are always about some type of drama. Also you should talk to your friend about the comments he made. It is not her fault. Who cares if she put him on her top friends it is because she likes you and probably wants to get along with your friends rather they dont like her and so on. If you break it off with her than your friend might move in because thay will think you are being childish and she deserves to be with someone else.....When you started talking to her you knew what kind of friends she had and I wouldnt judge her by that. if she wanted to be with them then i am sure she would have already would have been
It may be hard as i find it hard talkin to my boyfrined about my feelings but you should tellher how you feel, if you get it off your chest an talk to her about it you will feel alot better as i always feel better when iv spoke to my boyfriend about something thats bothering me
Wait and hope. There must be trust in a relationship. Talk to her and listen to what she says. It might not be what you want to hear.
i have a solution. talk to her! she is allowed to have friends, guys or girls and it is good to see you understand that. they might flirt with her but what does she do in response? does she tell them to stop, tell them she has a boyfriend? etc etc
you can not tell her to stop hanging out with guys. if you do not trust her then you need to talk to her. not blaming or accusing her of anything but just letting her know how you feel. but at the same time she needs to know there are boundaries with you and your friends. besides, myspace is an online thing. so it could mean nothing.
you have only been with her for 2 months, so you need to address this problem as soon as possible.
honestly my gurl just did the same **** all her friends were tellin me **** and then she finally told me the truth but idk im still with mine and were doin ok so just ask her about it.
dont tell her not to hang out with guys thats just wrong.
Just tell her exactly what you told us. that you love her, that you wish she wouldn't talk to so many guys, but that she shouldn't stop talking to guys entirely!
A little communication should do the trick!
Good luck!
just go up 2 her and in a kind matter ask her if she really likes u........then go 2 ur frend and ask him if he has an ongoing relationship wiv ur gf.....or if he evr did........(remember ask politely).....
let ur gf have other guy frends but dont let them take over her.....and as 4 the sexy thingy.....my bf's frend also calls me sexy but not in a way that he wants to capture me!!
hope i helped!!!!!
I need some advice about my relationship. Please help?
Alright heres the story.
Me and girlfriend have been together for a while now. We recently have been having some issues with exroommates, so we decided to just move on our own. We currently are staying with her mom until our apartment is ready for us to move in.
She has a child, that isn't mine, but I love her and treat her as though she was my own! Somethings I do she deems ';rough play'; and complains to me about it. Then she turns around and does the exact same thing.
She is a Leo and I'm a Taurus. We both are hard headed and stubborn. I really love this woman with my heart and I want to marry her one day and adopt her child. But, it seems like just about anything I do just upsets her. I try my HARDEST to make her happy and it doesn't work.
When we first got together we were like love birds, couldn't be seperated. But, I feel like our love for each other is just disappearing. I love her with my heart.
I need some advice to make her happy again. PLEASE HELP!I need some advice about my relationship. Please help?
Ask her...What can I do to make you happy?I need some advice about my relationship. Please help?
You need to talk to her. A serious, open, pour it all out, talk. She's trying to protect her child, but you need to remind her that she doesn't need to protect her from you because you love her and want to adopt her. Point out to her that all the things she calls you on, you can call her on and if she doesn't believe you, then start calling her on everything. I'm also a Leo and my hubby is a Taurus. Personally, I needed to learn to let some things go. You really need to sit with her or ask her if she's interested in marriage counseling because you feel there are some things that need to be worked out while they're still small problems.
LOOK AT HER STRAIGHT IN TO HER EYES AND TALK TO HER. TRY AND FIND A TIME WHERE YOU CAN BE ALONE, AND INTERAPTED, IN A ROMANTIC RESTAURANT FOR EXAMBLE.
LET HER KNOW THAT YOU REALLY LOVE HER AND HER CHILD AND LET HER ALSO KNOW THAT YOU ARE A VERY GOOD FRIEND AS WELL AS PARTNER.
thats really sweet.
set up a really romantic night just you and her and try to set the flame in your relationship again
Talk to her and be honest with her.
I think you 2 might need to give each other breathing room, and give her reason to miss your presence. Hopefully you have friends you can hang with to give you 2 time away from each other.
talk to your girlfriend about how you feel, or write her a letter. are you sure your not being too rough with the little girl, you may not realize how rough your being. sometimes my husband can be too rough, because men don't realize how strong they are. it also could be the strain of living with her mom, and it will get better when you get your own place. just talk to her, spend a night away alone. just the two of you. good luck
waste of time ....
You can not make her happy. There must be something going on. You said you were like lovebirds in the beginning...in my years of experience(many many many) people get together because they are in lust, not in love. You screw like horny rabbits all the time, then when that dies down, there is not really much left to base a relationship on. Plus, the fact when you live with a parent, you are not going to want to get down and dirty with them around, ewwww! talk to her about it, try and get your own place asap. Give it a while after you get moved, if it does not change, you probably are in a onesided love affair, dump her and make a life for yourself, cause believe me, You can not change, or make a person love you....they either do or dont. You should not have to buy, or bribe them for affections either.....
Hie Nuef. Well to me it is better for you to try to talk to her and when you have talk to her then it is good for you to try make things up, but when she is stuborn to talk about it then it is better for you to go and talk to her mom so that things can make up, but when she was dreaming about the hard play then it is better for you to not to go for it, when you have the hard play then it had change her to make her to became more stuborn and wants to have everything in her way, but it is good that you want to marry her and adopt the child and never give up in her and when you have her then it is better for her to give her some time to change, but before that it is good that for you to try to talk to her mom then from there at least she can have a talk with her and for sure the things will change and when it have change then it is good for you to marry her. So before anything it is good for you to change her by talking to her mom. Try this and hope it might help you...................
ALL THE BEST..................
Sorry ma frnd for what is happening to you i cant imagine how you look like now because this problem is realy hard.
The only thing to do now is just have a talk with her and express your fillings towards her and ask her the things she likes the most and those which she doesnt like so that you can know what to do so as to save your love.
I hope this will help to save your love.
Have a good love life with your girlfriend.
You cant make a person happy. The have to make themselves happy. If she seems ungrateful with everything you do then, then stop doing anything for her, she doesnt appreciate it anyway.
Me and girlfriend have been together for a while now. We recently have been having some issues with exroommates, so we decided to just move on our own. We currently are staying with her mom until our apartment is ready for us to move in.
She has a child, that isn't mine, but I love her and treat her as though she was my own! Somethings I do she deems ';rough play'; and complains to me about it. Then she turns around and does the exact same thing.
She is a Leo and I'm a Taurus. We both are hard headed and stubborn. I really love this woman with my heart and I want to marry her one day and adopt her child. But, it seems like just about anything I do just upsets her. I try my HARDEST to make her happy and it doesn't work.
When we first got together we were like love birds, couldn't be seperated. But, I feel like our love for each other is just disappearing. I love her with my heart.
I need some advice to make her happy again. PLEASE HELP!I need some advice about my relationship. Please help?
Ask her...What can I do to make you happy?I need some advice about my relationship. Please help?
You need to talk to her. A serious, open, pour it all out, talk. She's trying to protect her child, but you need to remind her that she doesn't need to protect her from you because you love her and want to adopt her. Point out to her that all the things she calls you on, you can call her on and if she doesn't believe you, then start calling her on everything. I'm also a Leo and my hubby is a Taurus. Personally, I needed to learn to let some things go. You really need to sit with her or ask her if she's interested in marriage counseling because you feel there are some things that need to be worked out while they're still small problems.
LOOK AT HER STRAIGHT IN TO HER EYES AND TALK TO HER. TRY AND FIND A TIME WHERE YOU CAN BE ALONE, AND INTERAPTED, IN A ROMANTIC RESTAURANT FOR EXAMBLE.
LET HER KNOW THAT YOU REALLY LOVE HER AND HER CHILD AND LET HER ALSO KNOW THAT YOU ARE A VERY GOOD FRIEND AS WELL AS PARTNER.
thats really sweet.
set up a really romantic night just you and her and try to set the flame in your relationship again
Talk to her and be honest with her.
I think you 2 might need to give each other breathing room, and give her reason to miss your presence. Hopefully you have friends you can hang with to give you 2 time away from each other.
talk to your girlfriend about how you feel, or write her a letter. are you sure your not being too rough with the little girl, you may not realize how rough your being. sometimes my husband can be too rough, because men don't realize how strong they are. it also could be the strain of living with her mom, and it will get better when you get your own place. just talk to her, spend a night away alone. just the two of you. good luck
waste of time ....
You can not make her happy. There must be something going on. You said you were like lovebirds in the beginning...in my years of experience(many many many) people get together because they are in lust, not in love. You screw like horny rabbits all the time, then when that dies down, there is not really much left to base a relationship on. Plus, the fact when you live with a parent, you are not going to want to get down and dirty with them around, ewwww! talk to her about it, try and get your own place asap. Give it a while after you get moved, if it does not change, you probably are in a onesided love affair, dump her and make a life for yourself, cause believe me, You can not change, or make a person love you....they either do or dont. You should not have to buy, or bribe them for affections either.....
Hie Nuef. Well to me it is better for you to try to talk to her and when you have talk to her then it is good for you to try make things up, but when she is stuborn to talk about it then it is better for you to go and talk to her mom so that things can make up, but when she was dreaming about the hard play then it is better for you to not to go for it, when you have the hard play then it had change her to make her to became more stuborn and wants to have everything in her way, but it is good that you want to marry her and adopt the child and never give up in her and when you have her then it is better for her to give her some time to change, but before that it is good that for you to try to talk to her mom then from there at least she can have a talk with her and for sure the things will change and when it have change then it is good for you to marry her. So before anything it is good for you to change her by talking to her mom. Try this and hope it might help you...................
ALL THE BEST..................
Sorry ma frnd for what is happening to you i cant imagine how you look like now because this problem is realy hard.
The only thing to do now is just have a talk with her and express your fillings towards her and ask her the things she likes the most and those which she doesnt like so that you can know what to do so as to save your love.
I hope this will help to save your love.
Have a good love life with your girlfriend.
You cant make a person happy. The have to make themselves happy. If she seems ungrateful with everything you do then, then stop doing anything for her, she doesnt appreciate it anyway.
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