Well about 10 days ago he broke up with me sorta suddenly. Partly because Im a bit jealous and sincecure at times and I guess it just finally got to him and he blew up. He said he wants to stay friend, hang out do things like we used to just take it slow and see where it goes.
Well at times, since weve broken up, he is really nice. Other times not so much. There are even times hes flirting with me, coming on to me, trying to touch me sexually and then pulls away. For some reason Im accepting this(probably because I miss him and want the attention). But its just making it more confusing and hard.I need some serious advice. About to lose a the best thing...?
You are simply going to have to talk with him and put your cards on the table.
~I need some serious advice. About to lose a the best thing...?
Did he ever give you a reason to distrust him?
If not it sounds like he is feeling smothered. He probably genuinely cares about you and likes to be with you, but can't deal with all the jealousy issues you have. You need to become your own person, and let him be his own.
Try doing things without him to gain your self confidence. Your happiness does not depend on him. Move on, and in time maybe it will work. In the meantime, he can't have it both ways, you can't bring him back with sex. He will just be using you.
tell him how u feel and if it dont work there r more people on this earth
There鈥檚 a difference between a regular guy, and a decent guy. A regular guy treats you like a beautiful flower, one that smells nice, and is very attractive and desirable. A decent guy will treat you like a princess, and obey as he interacts with you. Remember, the princess will one day rule, a flower wilts and dies.
Tell him your needs and desires and ask him if he is going to fulfill them or not.
Oh peach, hang in there. My heart goes out for you. Please be patient, there will be blue skies on the horizon.
u have to find out who u are and be sacure within yourself before u can really know what love is, how can u be so attasched to this one guy without venturing on a path of urown, try lettinggo i know its hard it hurts but until u let go u will never be sacure in his love for u if he comes back to u wanting to repair this with u then hes yours and u can be sacure in his love if he doesent then he never was yours and ude be better off finding someone else, life is a path of learnning of growing and learn from this experience to make the next experience even better
You can tell him all these feeling that you told us and ask him to please think about what you said and in the mean time I would go deeper into your religion or if you don't have one I would start asking some of your friends about it and learn alot...religion can help you deal with many problmes in life and it sounds like you need alot of help...or you can try your best to keep yourself busy by helping others and stuff like that...
I Hope it all works out for you...
-Moose
GO OUT WITH THE GIRLS, DATE OTHER GUYS... I KNOW YOU DON'T WANT TO, BUT YOU NEED TO! PICK UP AND CARRY ON! IF YOU ARE MEANT TO BE TOGETHER IT WILL HAPPEN, DON'T ';TRY'; TO MAKE IT HAPPEN!
YES YOU CAN REMAIN CLOSE FRIENDS, BUT GIVE IT A LITTLE TIME... DISTANCE YOURSELF JUST FOR A WHILE! YOU WILL HURT, CRY, AND ASK YOURSELF WHAT YOU DID WRONG! THE ANSWER.... YOU DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WRONG, WHEN A RELATIONSHIP IS MEANT TO BE THEN IT HAPPENS, AND WHEN IT ISN'T MEANT TO BE; YOUR SITUATION HAPPENS...
GO AND DO WHAT WILL MAKE YOU SMILE AGAIN...
HAVE COOK OUTS WITH FRIENDS... GO DANCING....
IS SEEMS ENDLESSLY PAINFUL FOR NOW, BUT TOMORROW WILL BRING YOU MUCH SUNSHINE!
GOOD LUCK!
ROBIN IN NC
back off from him for a bit..make him realize what he's missing..you aren't giving him a taste of that at all...because of the insecurity and clinginess, it's scaring him away....just go do your own thing for awhile and he will come running
got the picture....I think that maybe a little distance is needed to reflect on your relationship.....6 years to know someone ...then 2 1/2 years to be with him and now this....It might be confusing but you must be patient.....it isn't sex...because if it were till now you have had none...so he isn't ready, go slow...he has to find out . what he wants.....and maybe you too will grow more secure when going with others.
I really think that now you can grow a little and start thinking of you for a change instead of Us......
good luck, have some fun.....You both need to reassess your relationship. good luck
it'll be ight- just let it ride but never lose your love for him! if he feels any way you do then you'll get him back! love is deep! and it's hard to come by in this world! is it true or fake but soon you'll realize and that'll become your destiny!
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