I seriously need advice about boys. why is it that they are so into you one minute...and the not the next?

so i met this guy at work. he's military and i'm a watress. he's 5 years older than me. he told his friends how hot i was he told them where i worked and that he wanted a relationship with me. but the one day we hang out and i end up having sex with him. all of a sudden we don't talk much. he says its nothing i did. he said that it might sound cliche but its all him that he's just been thinking. but he won't tell me what he was thinking about...finally i was just like you know what when you realise we did nothing wrong gimme a call. i told him i was attracted to him and to come around fast.


why are men like this?I seriously need advice about boys. why is it that they are so into you one minute...and the not the next?
Hormones.





This guy is in the military, do you think part of this is about conquest?





You want a relationship, he wants sex. He's getting what he wants, when he needs more, he'll come back around.





Not trying to be rude, just what it seems to me.











LuckI seriously need advice about boys. why is it that they are so into you one minute...and the not the next?
guys change their minds about girls like they change thier underwear. i went through the same problem i just played it off like nothing happened
Not all men are like that. Unfortunately, you didn't met the good one. If I were you I will not go to bed in my first date. Some guys like a woman with dignity and has respect for herself.
Men like a challenge. By having sex with him this early on, you have removed the challenge.Next time around, try holding off for awhile.
Well it depends on the guy. If I stopped talking to you it would probably be because you're being annoying or complaining about everything... or because you want me to be only with you 24/7... but honestly it depends on the person. Maybe if you don't drive him nuts then it will all be good.
If you are very attractive, you have the choice of all the men who pass thru, and can hold out for whatever you want. If all you want is sex with a cute guy, and fast, that's all you'll get.





Sounds like you just pick all the guys who are just like you, then complain about it. They don't grow up because they don't have to. No expectations.
Men are like hunters. When they are going after something, they will try very hard to get it. Once they got it, the fun is over, and they lose interest.





The lesson is... Don't have sex with the next man... until you are married to him. Otherwise, he will surely lose interest also.
it's all about the pencil and the pencil sharpener for the hunters young padawan
cause men can be assholes. but i think after he got what he wanted, there was no reason to be with you any more. Sorry, thats just the way it is sometimes. Its better that you were not with him anyway
It is a true saying that the chase is always better than the catch you never give a man what he wants until you are sure he is under your spell. A man only wants a girl with self respect.
because men are pigs. He got what he wanted and has now moved on to new and other exciting things. Other hot girls.





Yeah, guys suck!!
because men like the hunt. and when you give it to them to early... the hunt is over. and moves on to the next thing.